I just dont see the point of anything, im not suicidal. i enjoy waking up and going to the gym, school, work (im 21 female) but i always ask myself why we go through a great deal to simply die and take none of it. i wonder if you guys ever feel the same way? Like a never ending cycle a routine that is never going to change. Also have any of you lost most of your friendships like i did when i entered college, i feel like everyone has a life but me. All my friends in high school are history i dont even see my bff and havent spoken to her for years, it hurts that they do not even attempt to contact me. Maybe this is why i feel like this because aside from my mom, dad, and sister who mean the world to me, not having friends or a significant other bother me too much. which brings me to the next point of my life sucks, i havent had a date well like in a year but ive never had a boyfriend, i really want to know what love is like ive never been loved in that way and i want it so badly. But finding friends and a boyfriend in college is hard when all you do is study study study. please help! | |
Don't worry about the boyfriend thing. It WILL happen, I promise. But you have to be social and go out. Don't stay shut up in your room, don't give yourself excuses to not go out (like too much studying!), and also STOP WORRYING ABOUT IT. The more you worry about a boyfriend, the more anxious you'll be when you're around a guy and the more awkward it will be. Focus on having fun and nothing more.
And about your high school friends-for some reason people like to disappear after high school. It's happened to almost everyone, so you're not weird and it's not because of you. My theory is that most people want to "start over" after high school and reinvent themselves, maybe change their personalities and try different things. But that's harder if you're holding on to the same friends. If you're friends aren't contacting you, it doesn't mean you'll never have friends again. It just means you have to find new ones. This is not a bad thing. You have a whole college of young people, it's impossible that no one there will talk to you. Just be friendly and talk to as many people as you can.
To answer your question, the meaning of life is to go through it happy. There's no goal at the end. It's just a ride. Just a dream. So make it a good one.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whosoever believes in Him, should not perish, but have everlasting life. John 3:16
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