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12 reasons why you hate your life

Posted by anonymous at November 16, 2009
Tags: November 2009  Philosophical

There’s really no reason you should hate your life. Many people give excuses as to why they do. Here are 12 common reasons. If you given these excuses then you need to quickly readjust your thinking. When you do, you’ll quickly come to enjoy your life.

1. Your parents ruined your life

Many people complain that their parents raised them wrong, set them up for failure, or didn’t start a college fund for them. If you can recognize these shortcomings, the you can change the future.

2. You have no money

This is probably the worst excuse. If money is the main reason for your happiness then you will never be happy. Money should not make you enjoy your life or hate it.

3. Your job sucks

If it sucks so much then quit and move on. A bad job should give you motivation to chase your dreams and strive for something better.

4. You have no time

If you have no time to do what you want then you must be letting unimportant tasks get the best of you. There’s many times when we think something is important or urgent, but in reality it isn’t. Recognize when you do this and change your focus to what you desire. Eliminate the unnecessary things that we all have and instantly you’ll have more time.

5. You have no one

Many times people’s depression and reason for hating life is because they feel alone. It’s one of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. Everyone must feel that they are wanted and have friends. When you don’t feel like you have anyone, you become depressed. But being depressed isn’t going to do any better, it’s going to chase people further away.

6. You’re a failure

People say they’re failures when they don’t accomplish something. But they always forget to recall or recognize the successes they’ve had in the past. You will never be a failure as long as you continue. And you never fail to learn from failure. Failure is great.

7. You’ve done nothing with your life

If you’ve done nothing productive with your life then get going! Start now or start tomorrow. It’s never too late or too early.

8. You’re bored

If you’re bored with your job and life, then you aren’t challenging yourself enough. You’ve settled with mediocrity. Start dreaming. Write down your dreams and goals, and how you can achieve them. Your life will become exciting in no time.

9. You’re stuck

Many people hate their lives because they feel like they’re getting no where fast. Whether it be debt and bills or a bad job, you can begin to plan your escape right now. Create a plan with hundreds of little steps and take at least one step everyday. Once you do so you’re becoming unstuck and before you know it you’ve escaped.

10. You let others get to you

You may hate your life because you listen too much to others. Don’t listen to naysayers and negative opinions. Don’t let others make you hate your life. Most of the time those who make you feel that way, hate their own lives.

11. You’ve stopped yourself

Many of those who hate their lives, do so because they didn’t follow through with their dreams. YOU are the most important factor to YOUR joy and happiness.

12. You’re too negative

If you hate your life then you’re too negative. Change your attitude and you’ll enjoy your life.


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By anonymous at 26,Mar,11 03:07

LIFE DOES SUCK!!! A LOT!! I'M A 24 YEAR OLD GUY, I'M GAY MALE, NOT THE PUSSY KIND OF GAY, BUT MORE LIKE THE MASCULINE TYPE, WELL HERE'S THE STORY... TWO YEARS AGO BEING A COLLEGE STUDENT EVERYTHING IN MY LIFE WAS GOING ON PERFECT BUT THEN .... I FOUND A GUY LOOKING AT ME AT COLLEGE AND HE WAS A NICE MUSCULAR GAY, JUST LIKE THE ONES I LIKE AND HE WAS REALLY LIKE TRYING TO HOOK ME UP, AND THEN SHIT FALLS FROM NOWHERE, ...I FOUND I HAD A STD FROM A SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP IN THE PAST UNPROTECTED, AND MY LIFE SUDDENLY WAS DEVASTATED BY THAT, I HAD TO DO AN ALMOST ONE YEAR TREATMENT, MY COCK WAS BURNED TOO BAD, I HAD A TERRIBLE DEPRESSION, AND THE GUY WHO WAS "THE GUY OF MY LIFE" I COULDN'T KEEP LOOKING AT HIM, OR JUST ACCEPT A RELATIONSHIP, I HAD A FUCKING """"STD"""" FROM A FUCKING CRAPPY STINKY DIABETIC GUY I MET AT THE SAUNA!!! I TOUGH LIFE WAS PLAYING ME A JOKE, BUT IT WAS NOT THE CASE, I HAD TO LET GO, PROBABLY THE ONE WHO WAS GOING TO BE THE MEN OF MY LIFE, I DID WANT THAT RELATIONSHIP TOO BAD, AND I HAD TO GIVE IT UP, CAUSE I WASN'T READY NOT PHISICALLY NOR MENTALLY, TO GET TO HIM AND EXPLAIN HIM MY PROBLEM, I THOUGH HE WOULD JUST REJECT ME CAUSE OF MY STD, AND WELL NOW TWO YEARS AND FOUR MONSTH LATER, I'M CURED I HAVE DEFEATED THE SHIT, BUT I'M ALONE, AND THE WORST PART, I FAILED AT SCHOOL I LOST THAT ACADEMIC YEAR, IT WAS A MESS!!!! AND I HAD TO GIVE UP ON THAT CARREER AND START A NEW ONE, IN OTHER UNIVERSITY, AND I LOOK BACK I IT HURTS, I JUST DON'T WANNA LOOK BACK ANYMORE, NOW I'M IN MY FIFTH SEMESTER OF ECONOMICS BACHERLOR DEGREE, AND I LIKE IT A LOT, BUT I MISS THE COLLEGE I MISS MY FIRENDS THERE, AND I MISS THAT PERSON I WISH HE COULD STILL THINK ABOUT ME, AND I KNOW WHRE HE IS, AND I DID FOUND HIM AT FACEBOOK, BUT I DON'T KNOW SOMETHING TELLS ME THAT THAT RELATIONSHIP WAS NOTMENT TO BE, AT LEAST INTHAT PARTICULAR MOMENT... I HATE LIFE, IT TOOK EVERYTHING AWAY FROM ME IN MATTER OF A YEAR, IT DISSAPEARED, ALL I HAD IS GONE!!! SAD... BUT TRUE.
By AnnieMACKERjenson at 23,Apr,11 00:00

What a pitty your life is sooo bad:( But you make it bad. Do you ever try hard enough and put yourself out there or advitise your good well being. NO you dont. So that is your problem.
By anonymous at 07,Jul,11 13:02 Fold Up

that's really sad. maybe you should try to meet a new guy
By anonymous at 09,Aug,11 14:04 Fold Up

hahaha shut up fagget its ur own fault for fucking some old dude.
By anonymous at 04,Jan,12 15:09

Life sucks, mostly because most people in the world in the world are stupid assholes like this one.

And that is a FACT.
By anonymous at 04,Jan,12 15:10

....aand I can't even fucking write while this heavily under medication to make life "not suck"... but ta-fucking-dah, it STILL sucks ass.
By anonymous at 17,Aug,11 00:48 Fold Up

Dude are you kidding me!? ya all that sucks but man, you're fucking cured, loving your course and you found the guy on facebook. your life doesn't suck at all. message him or call him or something and tell him how you feel, what you went through and why you couldn't be with him. if he's the one, he'll be with you. if not then move on and find someone else. you're young and you seem smart, you'll be okay and life will work out for you. that one year of your life sucked, yes, but now everything is going great for you. good luck
By anonymous at 19,Nov,11 04:56 Fold Up

There's a such thing as masculine gay?
By anonymous at 08,Dec,11 15:58 Fold Up

You should die Faggot.
By anonymous at 29,Dec,11 12:54 Fold Up

IM DRUNK HAHAHAH FAFAFAFAMOOOMOOOO
By anonymous at 15,Feb,12 05:52 Fold Up

Did you ever consider that you might be gay? I'm just thinking that if you weren't a fucking nut-case and loved pussy like every other human with a cock, you might not have such a difficult time. Good luck... I hope I helped:)


By anonymous at 07,Apr,11 23:54

Life is pure fucking darwinism. Fuck all that godly pretentious bullshit. Do or die...
By AnnieMACKERjenson at 22,Apr,11 23:49

Offeneded i am. You ought to be ashamed of yourself. You may as well be the only satan lover on this world, but it gives me no right to judge what you do. Just like if i was the only god lover on this world it gives you no right to judge me. Remember what you do comes right back at you.!!
By anonymous at 04,Oct,11 19:22

who the heck do u think u r to be all happy and perfect i nobody nothing and worse happeness life sucks live in the reality!!!
By anonymous at 08,Dec,11 17:12 Fold Up

Fuck you asshole
By anonymous at 12,Feb,12 00:11

NO! FUCK YOU FAGGOT
By anonymous at 31,Jul,11 22:07 Fold Up

i will be praying for you stranger :) and all the people who hate there life... God loved the world soo much he gave to us his only son and who ever believes in him will have eturnal life :) god bless you all and help you threw all your problems.. Amen :)
By anonymous at 04,Jan,12 15:20 Fold Up

ok, I'll just go die then. Not a problem in the slightest.

I mean, I hardly ever stumble onto intelligent humanbeings who actually think life's great.

Why?

Anyone with even HALF a brain knows this world's full of assholes out to ruin anyone elses life.

I mean the people with good intentions and intellect get stomped down by the fucking retards from day one in school, by bullying and pure fucking idiotism.

And what do smart people get? Depressed.

And what do the fucking IDIOTS get? Absolutely everything. Not hard for them to get popular and get friends and go to work because everyone else is just as fucking stupid and just as big of an asshole as they are.

I'll GLADLY leave this fucked up asshole filled world with a smile on my face. Have your pretentious, shallow bullshit, dancing around just the way your bullshit enslaving society wants you to.

Darwinism... I'd say life is nothing but IDIOTISM - dumbing down of the humanrace.

All you assholes do is sit on your ass, buy more soda from the store and trust your electricity, heat, foodsupply and cold hard cash.. no natural predators to look out for, no threats, NOTHING to actually WORK for. Lazy stupid cookiedoughboys who have never seen a day of survival, don't care about nature, lift themselves above all else and sit in front of your fucking TV's.

Life has no challenge... and that's why you assholes have to attack everyone else in the world, just to get what your human nature needs... aggression, defending your territory and fighting, that was SUPPOSED to be used to catch your fucking food.. but nope, the 7/11 is fine and back to play videogames and being an asshole to people "for lulz"


Life sucks because the humanrace has been fucked in the ass royally for quite some time now... you either decide shit for others and bathe in cash or follow every single bullshit rule to get your safety and everything handed to you....

I'd rather live in the fucking medieval times, at least then I'd get to thrust my fucking sword inside anyone being an asshole and life would still have some fucking BALLS.
By anonymous at 23,Jan,12 07:59

well said mate, well said
By Keyla at 19,Feb,12 03:38 Fold Up

Hahhahaa my hero!!! ;)
By anonymous at 17,Jan,12 20:20 Fold Up

That is true. But I think the sooner everyone realizes it, and puts away the childish god shit, we can strive to make our lives better.
By anonymous at 29,Jan,12 16:07

you wanna shut up there nigga??


By Who gives a shit at 08,Dec,11 16:51

You're all a bunch of fucking kids... 15 years old - can't see your fucking idiot boyfriend... 24 year old fag... all the religion bullshit... don't have the balls to kill yourself - WAKE THE FUCK UP - nobody gives a shit about you. That's how this world works you bunch of pussies. I'm 72 years old and I have never seen anyone give a shit about anyone but themselves. THAT INCLUDES YOU AND ME ASSHOLES. Learn to live with a shitty life... that's how it fucking goes. I've done it my whole fucking life. I've never met any of you, and I can honestly say I hate you all - and I hope you hate me too... it would make me feel better for you morons to hate me. It should make you feel better about your pathetic meaningless lives to hate me. I'm looking forward to dying and seeing all you mother fuckers in hell... live with it. ALL YOU RELIGIOUS ASSHOLES - FUCK YOU - that shit doesn't work. Please don't shove your shit in here... go to a God loves everybody site and fool yourselves - what ever you do - don't say you'll pray for me - that's a fucking joke... and not a funny one.
By anonymous at 18,Dec,11 13:11

WELL SAID.
By anonymous at 19,Jan,12 13:02

Id like to whip your 72 year old ass. Just because you lead a miserable insignificant life, and have given up on yourself doesnt mean everyone else has to. If you dont have anything constructive to say why dont you just keep your fucking mouth shut?
By Who gives a shit at 20,Jan,12 12:21

Please come whip my ass you pathetic little fuck... I haven't given up on myself - I've given up on the world because people like you. Everything I say is constructive. Being the pussy you are, you take it personally - just like the rest of the kids in this world... lazy little assholes feeling sorry for themselves because shit isn't easy or free. I'll keep my fucking mouth shut when you come whip my ass... oh yeah, it's not like fighting on a video game - I'm probably in better physical condition than you, and obviously more in touch with reality. Wait a minute... is this the 24 year old fag? Do you want to beat my ass or spank it... If you're not a fag, I am retired and willing to go anywhere in this country to beat the shit out of you - just let me know. I did two tours in Vietnam for fun... what have you done with your life except bitch about how bad you think it is. I'm not going to powder your ass, tell you you're special, and that the world just doesn't understand... because you're not special and the world doesn't give a fuck about you - that's meant to be constructive - now go pout about it.
By anonymous at 22,Jan,12 11:02

Did you do two tours of vietnam as a ladyboy.You are such a crude ,vindictave prick.
Just because you are a dumb sad mother fucker doesn`t give you the right to bully everyone else.
So why don`t you fuck off.
By anonymous at 25,Jan,12 02:30 Fold Up

cool story bro tell me it again
By anonymous at 29,Jan,12 22:52 Fold Up

Soo fuckin true! I couldn't agree with anyone more...life doesn't ever get any fucking better...
By Who gives a shit at 30,Jan,12 18:00

see... fucking constructive. now go live your life without giving a shit about what these people do or think. They're all a bunch of losers wanting the world to bow down and kiss their ass - aint gonna happen. The world shits on everybody - pretending it's not shit doesn't make you an optimist - it makes you an idiot.
By BigGayFag6969 at 15,Feb,12 05:58 Fold Up

Hey there 72 year-old. I hate you because you're a douche, not for any other reason. But hey, I'll pray for you. I'm lying... I actually am Christian, but I'm not going to pray for you because you don't exist, and I'd be crazy to pray for a spic with a hearing problem anyway.
By Who gives a shit at 17,Feb,12 12:04

Ahhh the typical Christian: a lying, judgemental, prick. FUCK OFF ASSHOLE... How can I have a hearing problem if I don't exist? Oh I see - you're a BigGayFag - another sign of a dedicated Christian fuck up. You must have a wad of cum stuck to the part of your brain that helps you make sense.
By Keyla at 19,Feb,12 03:56

You're so not 72. Any man that age with 4 lbs residing inside his skull would not be in here insulting kids, as you call them. Much less using derogatory terminology on homosexuals. Now, why so furious, child? Give us a break and go back to playing War Rock; we're trying to help someone here.


By Dakota Berry at 27,Dec,11 11:18

im 14 & im a guy, i live in georgia. I need sex so badly right now its not cool. I need some1 to be my partner. plzzzzzzz some1, & if u gotta PS3 online add... R3KZ_NokzlaTitov. plzzzzzzz some1 help i need sex!!
By anonymous at 29,Jan,12 16:10

hey i live in georgia too im a girl wanna meet up i will see u at mcdonalds


By anonymous at 17,Jan,12 19:48

Yeah, my life really does suck. And there's no stopping it. I'm gay. I have a huge nose. I have fucked up teeth. I have an uneven bone structure. My upper lip is weird looking. I'm a high-school dropout. I'm a failure and I /always/ will be. At least I've accepted it, though.
By anonymous at 30,Jan,12 20:50

really just becuse you dont look so good doesnt meen that you cant find love try put effort into it!! thats wat i did


By anonymous at 28,Jan,12 16:01

i have all does reasons so thats why im gonna turn emo when im 13 or 10 my lie sucks


By anonymous at 28,Jan,12 16:01

sorry life i missed the f


By anonymous at 29,Jan,12 16:13

WOW tuff crowd guys cool down!!


By anonymous at 30,Jan,12 20:47

really i have people that lie to me. i have people that cheat...but when you think about it. it teaches you a lesson. to do whats right and im not on anybodyes side . i love people i have anger issues.... that i cut myself i regret that :(.. i cant forgive myself but like i said life lesson


By fb.com/hocineoutta at 31,Jan,12 15:52

really really i hate my fuckin life pppf shit
i really had all this reasons ...... who like me ?


By anonymous at 07,Feb,12 14:12

omg how did i end up on this site -.- oh yehh im 2 pussy to admit my faults grow the fuck up and accept that the worlds not goin to lick my ass but i just cba


By anonymous at 10,Feb,12 17:47

Oh how I wish I were pretty....


By OwO~Stuffed Moogle Pro~OwO at 10,Feb,12 18:53

Im 11 years old. My life changes on how much I love it. I think I got Multi Personality Disorder :P

At school, Im normally made fun of and shit :P

But later Im happy and random and childish again :P

After that Im depressed :P


By anonymous at 13,Feb,12 01:53

This website is great.

Everyone here is lying. We're anonymous, and still everyone is lying. The only real truth to be had on this page is that people are assholes.

The person writing the article is an asshole. Only people who've never had truly awful things happen to them would write an article like this. It's not helpful for the people who are seriously hurting. In fact, many people with serious depression might read something like this and give up. Depression is not the same as 'having a bad day,' or 'going through a rough patch.' It's a medical condition. You wouldn't tell a diabetic to suck it up (or maybe you would). That's science, asshole.

On the subject of science, the 'religion bullshit' comments are all made by assholes too. I'm not overtly religious. But the big bang is silly. It's more believable that two particles collided in such a way that created all the universe than that there is a being greater than us? There are things so small we can't see them with our eyes (molecules). There are things so far away we can't see them (other galaxies). Why couldn't there be something so big we can't see it? You know, science used to say that the world was flat. Science used to believe the sun revolved around the Earth. Those scientists believed they were right, and they were assholes to the scientists who, as it turns out, actually were right.

The assholes calling the gay guy a faggot. Clever. Make that up by yourself? Make you feel good? I'm sure there's lots of things about you that people could call you names for too. The funny thing about people who call other people names is there's usually nothing you can call them that upsets them - except what they're calling you. Maybe you're a faggot, eh? But you never were honest with yourself. Did seeing the other boys in the locker room make you feel funny stuff, but you could never come to terms with it? Maybe your daddy would beat you if he found out his little boy was a queer? All your friends would leave you and make fun of you or worse. All because you feel attracted to another man? Or maybe (and this is almost worse) you aren't like that at all - maybe you just wrote that because it's funny. Calling the gay guy faggot. Comedic gold. It'd be funny like if I said 'I fucked your Mom!' but instead of kidding, I actually had. Not as funny. Asshole.

And the asshole who says he's 72 and went to 'Nam - 1) I don't believe you're that old, if you went to 'Nam 'for fun' (cause yea, killing slant eyes is something the whole goddamn family can enjoy), you'd be about thirty, which I think puts you as too old to enlist. You'd either have already be serving, or drafted. Even if I'm wrong about that, shame on you. Not for serving your country - war is awful work, and that was an awful war, which isn't any soldiers fault - but because you're so callus about it. There are men who have horrible mental and physical problems stemming from that war. And 2) if the younger generation doesn't respect elders, well, you've done nothing to improve that. You've only proved that you can be an asshole at any age. Congratulations. That's your legacy. When you leave this world, you can die knowing that you left the world a shittier place. Asshole.

The asshole who said he was a girl from Georgia - you know, that kid probably hasn't gotten his first hardon yet, nevermind he needs sex, but he probably did go to McDonalds looking for you. It's funny, but still kind of a dick move.

And I might be the biggest asshole of all - I told the truth, and I did so even know it wasn't going to make a damn bit of difference in any of your lives. I came to this site because I've been depressed because I've been out of a job, nobody's hiring, and my girlfriend and I got into another fight. I was looking for some people like me, who were down, that I could relate with, and maybe feel better. But instead I found a bunch of trolling assholes. And now I'm one of them too. But hey, I guess I do feel better.
By anonymous at 17,Feb,12 23:23

"Science used to believe the sun revolved around the Earth."

Actually, there was no "science" in the modern sense of the word back then. "Science" as we understand it today begins precisely with the emergence of Empiricism as the best way to find the truth. You probably mean to say that "clever people once believed the sun revolved around the Earth", and that is true. But those people never were scientists.
By Keyla at 19,Feb,12 04:33 Fold Up

Well, your comments made a difference for me. I too wanted to read up on how some people found motivation to feel better and move on from bad experiences. What I found were a bunch of clowns making others feel even worse about themselves. You made me laugh and think a bit so for that I am grateful. I don't think you're an asshole, but maybe we all are in some sense, I guess. Looking at it your way I'd say I'm one big one myself because I feel betrayed and wronged by the people closest to me. When I know it's only my fault I feel that way since I let them hurt me. I don't expect anything from anyone because I know sooner or later loved ones will let you down. But I somehow allowed myself to hurt, thus letting myself down. I feel when you let yourself get hurt, you're even a bigger asshole than those who provided harm in the first place. I don't have the luxury of saying I didn't see it coming because I did forgive too many times before. So knowing that the reason behind my pain is not necessarily the fact that they are traitors, but the desire to take back all the good I've done for them(considering I wouldn't feel like I've lost time and effort on a worthless person/friendship)in the hopes of de-victimizing myself and mending my sacrifices, definitely makes me a huge asshole. Talking about it sure helps though.. and what better way than with complete strangers? :) Thanks for your insight!
By Keyla at 19,Feb,12 05:36

I hope you feel better and find a job soon. I'll tell you what I told this other person... Challenges as well as opportunities only come to those who are prepared for them. A little patience and perseverance should do the trick. But if a relationship seems more harmful than constructive, it's time to let go. Better being alone than in negative company. I sure ended all the relationships that I mentioned above, and this time for good. There's no point in forgiving more than once. People go only as far as you let them. Good luck!


By anonymous at 16,Feb,12 21:06

You all should fucking shut up because ur life is perfect compared to mine ! I'm 14 years old and my sister fucked me over she liked this studied ass boy that my mom hated and didn't want them to be together but of coarse my sister didn't listen so she ended up snicking out and doing drugs with this stupid ass low life my sister put my mom under so much stress she got a disease called fibromyalgia that fucking sucks look the disease up is bad and she has the worst you could possible have of it she also has a heart condition so that makes every thing ten times worst shes in the hospital for ten days at a time about every two months and my sister could give a sit less ! When she was causing all my mom the stress she sent my sister to live with her dad in Michigan witch was suppose to be a short thing until she thought her life was so perfect over there because her dad let her do everything she wanted to do! Because my mom can't see her other daughter it only makes her stress worst which make the fibromyalgia worst ! And if I do anything wrong she gets so mad and that makes her heart hurt so that makes her health worst and she goes threw this every day and I have to worry about her dieting or killing herself everyday and she barly gets out of the house except to watch me play basketball ( I play basketball only thing I can do that makes me happy besides being with my mom) this only makes her depressed and in more pain because she doesnt do anything ! She use to be a ful of life and working mom that was happy all the time !
By Keyla at 19,Feb,12 05:00

Well, that really is tough. I think you are being a great sibling(I'm thinking brother but you didn't specify) by looking out for your sister, and from what I can conclude, your mom too. It's no doubt life is as difficult for your sick sister though and so try not to hold it against her when she feels like being a rebel and makes some mistakes. At your age, I was just trying to find meaning to life outside my daily routines and did many things I am not proud of. Things that also upset my older sister and parents. She has to deal with her illness and it may be hard for her to realize the pain she puts you and your mom through. Just remember you don't have to feel responsible for or obligated to fix her mistakes. Letting her know that you are there for her providing comforting advice with a (brotherly) hug and support is enough to show both your sister and your mom that you care. Good luck and stay strong! Things tend to get better, or even worsen with time...but knowing that nothing lasts forever is key. If it counts for anything I'd like to conclude that I'm 23 and still have many problems in my life since childhood. Even at your age my mother would beat me horribly in ways you wouldn't want to imagine. My younger brother would take everything from me and was never punished for it. I resented them greatly for many years. When I was old enough though, I left home and never suffered their abuse again. My mom and I have a decent relationship now that she's older and I still don't speak to my brother.. but what I'm trying to say is life goes on and we can survive anything thrown at us. Challenges as well as opportunities only come to those who are prepared for them. There's nothing you can't handle; I promise. Force yourself to smile often..this automatically sends signals to the brain that will make you feel better instantly. Try it! :D
By Keyla at 19,Feb,12 05:14 Fold Up

Wait a minute, I got it all wrong! Sorry..wow. So it's only your mom who's sick..It does suck big time if your sister is being inconsiderate; she sounds like my brother. In this case, I'd say then to try to be there for your mom always and do nice things for her to become happy again. Write her letters, pick her some flowers, ask her about her dreams and what the best years of her life looked like. It will brighten her day and just keep trying to remain careful around her. Sometimes our parents need us more than we need them. Advice your sister to behave better since your mom's health depends on it. If she doesn't care, explain to her how much it hurts you then. Perhaps that way, she'll relate better. Sorry again for mix up..I wish you the best!
By anonymous at 22,Feb,12 14:25

i hate it cause i think everybody, is against me


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