I am 25 yrs old. I have a perfect boyfie- handsome, caring, faithful etc etc. we've known each other since high school. its 7 yrs now and still counting. (in relationship with him about 4months ago) but my parents go against us. dad checked every phone call i made, every sms i received, every steps that i made. he also took my phone during the night. if im on the phone with my boyfie, he would misscall me so that he knew whether im on the phone or not. (we are in the same house). even if he dont, my sisters would report to my parents that i was on the phone with my bf during the night. suck. isnt it?
my parents do not allow me to watch movie. cant listen to music. cant play games. cant eat more. cant sleep more than normal (if i do, hot water will be splashed on me]. cant have vacation with friends [they're too busy to bring us to a vacation]. cant have boyfriend. have to read religious books. have to wear religious clothes. im doing my internship now so i practically stay at home. i have another one semester to complete my degree. parents ask to continue study off hostel means i cant stay in a hostel because they afraid i would go out. maybe they want me to live in a shell that they want to carry everywhere. they even go against my bro's relationship with the stupid fucking reason - distance (but still in the same country,stupido). make any sense?
im finishing my internship soon. i feel like destroying myself. they are irrelevant! i dont ask them for money. i live with my own loan money. i have to pay $15k after i complete my deg. and my house dont have TV.
anyway, i want to write more. but this is the only thing for now. i cant think more. i miss him. i cant even hangout with anyone. im not a high school kid anymore. im not a breastfeeding baby. im a 25-year-old women already, for God's sake. suck. fuck.
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After dropping out of college and leaving home, I moved to another state, left no forwarding address and never talked to my parents again.
Before I left home, my computer science teacher called me at home and asked why I dropped out, as I was the best student he had in the last five years (I grew up in Silicon Valley). I told him that I needed to drop school and get out away from my parents.
My parents are both under psychiatric care, and for good reason.
I have never regretted my decision.
Get a clue, leave home now, at any cost: your parents are psycho and psycho is contagious!
FUCKING LEAVE.
Anon is right, while he/she/it says to tell them to STFU and such. You're 25 now, 21 is the max time frame they have to boss your guts. If they don't like it, tough for them. Tis' hell you go through, give nothing but the Hellish Void of a ex-communicated family member in return.
I hope there was but a single piece of useful info in my Advice. May your journey be an easy one. (Oh, and, walk in God's grace, provided that you're religious. If not, omit this last part.)
I agree 100% with you Dr. Internet.
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