26 year old virgin, I've never been kiss, I've never been to "first base". my sexual peek was six years ago. i'm going to jump into traffic if my life does not get any better.
I am 23, and a virgin. I feel the same way as you do. Jumping into the traffic is not gonna help. It might leave you with a couple of broken bones thus further minimizing your chances of getting laid. Also, it might even cripple you so bad that you could never again attempt a suicide, and be made to live, nomatter how bad you want to die. I would suggest that you work on your confidence and then try approaching some women, or, try some other more efficient suicide technique.
and by the way, you can contact me at rupindersingh.em@gmail.com, if you ever you feel like talking. Had you been from my city, I would have taken you out on a tour to appproaching women.
ever heard the term "self sufficient"? and i agree with anonymous above, your dick is not going to fall off and you'r not going to die, people with genital cancer have it worse dude, you should be celebrating.
if your gonna jump into traffic do it, if your main problem is that you havnt gotten to "first base" then count yourself lucky you pathetic piece of shit,
Please....if you just want to rid off your virginity, just get drunk and go out...the best in college environment. Listen to popular music to make you dance,create an energy in yourself and thats it! It is not about appreciating yourself,or non-dignity...and,yes, ohligatory use protection!. If that is your main problem,solve it. And then you could think clearer and seek the problem where it probably really stucks;-) dont be too hard on yourself.and good luck!:-)
Everyone here that is saying this isn't a problem at all obviously lost their virginity already or is having regular sex. I've been on a dry spell for over 7 months and I feel miserable - like I want to put my head through some dry wall. This is a seriously problem that can totally mess up a males (or females) psychology. Sex is part of natural development and going further and further on without it in a society which glorifies promiscuity and sexual indulgence at almost every turn through almost EVERY known medium can so easily make one feel like they are ostracized from everyone else; and humans naturally want to belong in union with one another.
Man that's rough. I seriously suggest online dating or speed dating, or ask some of your friends to set you up. But, if it doesn't happen right away please remain strong my friend. You've got your entire life ahead of you to experience this wonderful activity.
I was with you, and then you were "I haven't had sex is 7 months". I get it, but this person has NEVER had sex. Would've helped more if you didn't add that information.
Sex is cool and all but its not the main basis for happiness. If your unhappy as a virgin chances are you'll be depressed again as a non virgin. Stop taking it so seriously, theres alot of worse problems that you could have. Count your blessings.
I got laid a few times but it wasn't worth it for me... The stress of a relationship is too much. If you're like me I suggest paying a prostitute and then you can atleast say you've had sex. I know that sounds very superficial but I think that's all I was waiting for (I don't really know you'd get hold of prostitutes though? You probably know better than me).
Get some hobbies if you can, take caffeine, try anti-depressants if you have to. Work hard if you can.
I agree that a more sure suicide method would be a better option if you really have to kill yourself. Perhaps only use suicide as a last resort; try a few other options before.
If suicide is for you think it through before doing it. Shooting yourself might be an option, blowing yourself up might be an option if you can trust yourself to make explosives safely. Even suffocating with helium or perhaps laughing gas is probably a more sure way than jumping in front of a bus. Perhaps jumping in front of a high speed train might be better? I'm just trying to spare you more pain bro...
Life will get better. You have my word. Pray to god. Go to a church or anywhere and pray to god. TRUST ME. YOU HAVE MY WORD. IF YOU BELIEVE IN GOD, HE WILL HELP YOU. HE DOES EXIST!!! YOU HAVE MY WORD. HAVE FAITH IN HIM AND BE PATIENT AND ENDURE. JUST PRAY TO HIM YOU HAVE MY WORD, YOU WILL BE OKAY. TRUST ME
I am sorry about wat u re going through, dont commit suicide! I wld av help you 2 gain back ur confidence if Iive close 2u but u can do this 4me believe in ur self & wen u feel like talking. My mail add is sweetstuff1960@yahoo.com. I will reply u. U re not alone!
Chill :)
wondered why "getting laid" is such a big thing in people's life....
Man that's rough. I seriously suggest online dating or speed dating, or ask some of your friends to set you up. But, if it doesn't happen right away please remain strong my friend. You've got your entire life ahead of you to experience this wonderful activity.
All the best.
~Jack
Get some hobbies if you can, take caffeine, try anti-depressants if you have to. Work hard if you can.
I agree that a more sure suicide method would be a better option if you really have to kill yourself. Perhaps only use suicide as a last resort; try a few other options before.
If suicide is for you think it through before doing it. Shooting yourself might be an option, blowing yourself up might be an option if you can trust yourself to make explosives safely. Even suffocating with helium or perhaps laughing gas is probably a more sure way than jumping in front of a bus. Perhaps jumping in front of a high speed train might be better? I'm just trying to spare you more pain bro...
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