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Posted by anonymous at January 25, 2012
Tags: Attitude  2012 January  Relationship

On the outside, everything looks fine. I have a loving family, a nice career and good friends. On the inside...I hate myself. I'm stuck in a horrible, double standard relationship with a man that is constantly lying and cheating on me. When I do break-up with him, I manage to meet a guy that breaks my heart and I go running back to back to the cheater. Even if I do meet a nice guy, I'm so hung up on the cheater that I can't see clearly. Eight years of my youth have been sucked out of me during this relationship. All I have to show for it is baggage and wasted time. As I approach the middle of my 31st year of life, I approach it with a black, darkened spirit. A spirit that feels like a life of trust, happiness and joy with another person is too much to ask for. I feel that I am forever destined to be alone...


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By anonymous at 10,Feb,12 20:03

Why do you need a man? Love someone else. You don't even love this guy. You have money. Live alone and get your shit together before he fucks up your mind and your career or before you lose your job and you really do get stuck with him.


By anonymous at 10,Feb,12 23:18

I soooooo understand as I'm sure so many do. Find happiness within yourself. No person can give you happiness, safety and love until you can give it to yourself.
By anonymous at 11,Feb,12 04:20

I agree :)


By cc at 11,Feb,12 00:27

You have learned many things, no matter what. Your life has not been a waste. You have reached a dead end, however, and you know you need to move on, that's all. You have to agree that loving yourself is a requirement that you are not fulfilling. Why do you allow this guy to have so much power over you? Maybe the answer lies in finding your very own true strength. Make a decision that you must be the adult in your head and do whatever it takes to break yourself free from this voluntary bondage. Your girlfriends can be your best allies, they will listen to you cry and spend time with you. Leave men alone. Until you find out who you are, things will not get better, and that may take over a year. Please, be your own Knight-in-Shining Armour, you deserve to be loved with gentle kindness! Sign up for some classes and learn new things that have nothing to do with relationships. Beading, painting, gym activity, belly dancing...whatever. Grow and bloom :)


By anonymous at 11,Feb,12 00:53

well you can always marry me :) haha
By anonymous at 14,Feb,12 11:09

is that a joke?


By anonymous at 11,Feb,12 02:39

Jesus will change your black darkened spirit into a spirit of light! Jesus can be trusted, he will never leave nor forsake you, he will love you with unconditonal love that is everlasting. He loves you just as you are today. He will always be with you. All you have to do is accept him as your lord and savior, ask for forgiveness of your sin and Jesus will forgive you of all your sin! He died on the cross for you.
By anonymous at 11,Feb,12 13:28

Wow, that's really deep but so true! I believe in Jesus. :)
He can help you get out of the darkness, just pray. That's what I always do and it works! :)


By anonymous at 11,Feb,12 10:35

Go on craigslist and start soliciting sexual encounters with random strangers.


By anonymous at 11,Feb,12 13:29

Find hope!! Have your girlfriends and Jesus help you!! Dont give up!!! :)


By anonymous at 11,Feb,12 13:31

You should stop trying to find a guy for you and focus on yourself. Find out what interests you, and spend time with your friends! They can always help. ;)


By anonymous at 11,Feb,12 13:32

I totally agree same here but we should all stop focusing on men and focus more on ourselves


By anonymous at 11,Feb,12 13:34

Sad story. Maybe you should quit focusing on guys and focus on helping yourself? And remember that your girlfriends are always there to help you. But maybe later on in your life you will find a man that is perfect for you. But dont focus on it too much now im sure he'll come! :)


By at 11,Feb,12 13:36

oh im so sry for u. stop being with those jerks and focus on being happy with yourself! dont be worried tht u dont have a man yet he'll come


By at 11,Feb,12 13:38

dont feel bad a nice guy will come sooner or later and you should quit being with those jerks they're not doing anything good to you you should focus more on pleasing yourself and your friends!! :)


By anonymous at 11,Feb,12 13:38

Find hope!!! Jesus will help you


By anonymus at 11,Feb,12 13:39

find a nice guy at match.com they've got the best :)


By anonymous at 11,Feb,12 18:42

Nice guys finish last because of you.

-Nice Guy


By at 14,Feb,12 11:18

no one is ever destined to be alone u kno im 12 and a girl and i think love sucks but you'll find someone:)


By crorkz matz at 03,Aug,14 19:07

nTJkKC Looking forward to reading more. Great article.Really looking forward to read more. Fantastic.


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