LIFE SUCKS

hey anonymous, life is hard but suicide does not help anything. I too feel lonely even though Iam married. I have alot of pain in me but we need to reach out. If you want to email me. sonysun007@aol.com

Take a week off and go on a trip somewhere. Surround yourself with new people and do things that you enjoy the most. Atleast you don't have to worry about debts and food everyday. You're still lucky man so stop bitching and try what works out for you. Good luck.

I think I would prefer connections with people over survival. Physical pain can never equal emotional unless you have very limited emotions like a lot of drones in this world. Then the basic stuff seems harder because you have never experienced true intensity. Ive had emotions of depression, fear or anxiety so powerful that you could strip the skin off my body inch by inch and it would not compare, it would be a welcome distraction.

orionosky@hotmail.com for anyone thinking of killing themselves, if you choose this option of death I wont hate you like many others who have no idea but I obviously would prefer to help you keep living, I know what its like to not want to be here anymore

I hear U and I feel ur pain, even though things are bad, take time to see God around U, if U can trully notice the magic of sunset and u are still able to laugh, then u will be ok. I have been where U are now and I am older than u- imagine that. My spirit have been even lower than Urs. Suicide never really helps. If U never loved live U will not be reaching out. It is always darkest before dawn. Just remember u are irreplaceable, no one can ever be U. Soon u will look back and remember this day and smile at ur courage. Do me a favour, write down every dream U have ever wanted to achieve in Life. If U can do that, then U are never beated and U are a winner. Quitters never dare to dream. Dream is Hope and belief in the future. Hang on, U matter more than U think. U are never alone.....

Hi Anonymous,
I forgot to add on my last comment that if U never really loved life, u will not be working so hard. Like I just said about the sunset and dreams, identify what u want, and need. What makes u happy? what makes u cry? what is really missing? If u dont know all these things then u will be like a dog biting his tail. Challenges are meant to be overcome. Avoid alcohol n excessive eating, they never do any good. if its people u miss, volunteer to help the needy,when u help others then U realise how good it feels n how blessed u are. join the red cross. U have a gift, work on that. Embrace ur fears, even the thoughts of suicide, dont run from it find out why u think it is an option when there are many other and far better options. Feel the fear n conquer it. Stay Blessed. Send me an email at paiwerioba@gmail.com

At least you have a job..I can't even get one no matter how hard I've tried. I'm the same age as you too. Stay positive

Don't worry about too much about an exciting life. You need to learn to enjoy the peace when you are alone. Having a lot of people around you will not make you "not lonely", the feeling comes from your heart. A lot of people die to be alone to get away from trouble from people around them.

i feel the same way

It sounds like you have a good life. You just need to get out more. Join a group, take a class, do a Habitat for Humanity build. Do things to meet people. This problem isn't a hard one to solve.

No no no, that's not the solution dear! You are only 25. If there's one thing I've learned in life it's that IT GETS BETTER. When I think about the hardships and loneliness that I've faced in the past, I get very glad that I didn't end it all because now life is grand. Nothing stays the same. All you have to do is join an organization. A year from now your life could be totally changed. You could be in a loving relationship or having a ball as a single person. You'll be happy you stuck around to see the joy.

Hey, I'm a straight shooter. Honestly your logic isn't terrible, you're just drawing a way too premature conclusion. I'm lonely too - that's why I'm here. But even on the worst days, there are too many good things to enjoy to go that far. No situation is the same, so I wouldn't venture to guess how you can achieve happiness but I can tell you that if you focus on yourself happiness will manifest. You seen like a good dude to me and eventually people will notice. If you're around Nebraska hit me up and we'll get a beer. Tc8008d@yahoo.com

I hear you. No one ever calls me either. I'm pretty much all alone too. I had a party a few years back. I invited 40 people and not one person showed up. I spent a lot of money on snacks and organizing games and etc... It was awful. I waited for awhile and then took the decorations down and put the food away. Sad!!! That kind of experience tends to make you skittish to make friends or reach out to others. I have an unsupportive family and I am stressed about money because I don't have a job. I live by myself and go to events by myself. I dont have a boyfriend either. The one thing I do have is I'm in college and have goals in that arena. I'm an older student. Although I keep flunking the MCAT to get into med school. I struggle with OCD, depression and anxiety. It's difficult somedays. Counseling helps me. I hope you start to feel better. Remember you are not alone. Others have similar issues. Everyone that has commented seems to really be genuine. Very nice to read their comments! Carry on! :-)

I'm in the same boat buddy!.. 25, i have a job, lots of money. No friends. No girlfriend. i long to be loved and to matter to someone. I've had a string of failed relationships and even i feel like giving up. Put the gun to my mouth and pull the trigger. But you know what, face it like a man. You need to be strong.

You can encounter Christ in a very powerful way, in the midst of feelings of isolation or loneliness. Looking at the crowds of people around you doesn't help, when you feel that no one truly cares for you.

The Psalmist cried out, "No man cares for my soul." [Psalm 142:4]. He was experiencing the loneliness of isolation from other people, and the feeling that those around him were pursuing their own interests rather than showing genuine concern for his soul.

People are often pursuing their own interests and desires, but the lesson we must learn is that people are not our source. In the midst of your isolation, you can turn to Christ and discover that His love truly does satisfy. Jesus understands loneliness and rejection. He experienced isolation from people. Because he understands, he is able to bring acceptance and love.

Christ brings you love, acceptance, and intimate communion with the God of love. With Christ, you are not alone. He conquers your loneliness by coming to dwell within you. Loneliness is removed by the presence of the indwelling Christ.

There is precious communion with Christ, when a lonely person discovers that the love of Christ is real and satisfying. There is an old saying, "Blessed are the homesick, for they shall come home." Loneliness and isolation are signs of homesickness, which can only be healed by coming home to Christ.

Christ makes us whole. His love makes us whole, and out of the overflow of Christ's love within us we can then show love and compassion for those around us. Out of the overflow of His love and acceptance for you, which heals your loneliness, you can show love and caring towards those around you.

He knocks at the door of your heart; the presence of Christ is real. But He must be invited into your heart, into the center of your being.

Receive Him; receive His cleansing and forgiveness and love. Allow Him to have the control of your life in a genuine surrender, and His loving presence will fill you, removing loneliness and unrest. May the peace of Christ fill you now!

A Prayer of Surrender:

Dear Lord Jesus, please fill me with your love, and wash away all my sins. I surrender my heart and life to you. I ask you to receive me and make me whole.

Thank you for dying on the cross for my sins, to cleanse me and forgive me. Thank you for dying on the cross for me, to make me a child of God. I turn away from all my sins, with all my heart.

I receive you, Lord Jesus, as the Lord and Savior of my life. I ask you to rule in my heart and life from now on. I ask you to fill me with your loving presence, and guard me with your divine protection.

I ask you to strengthen me and help me, to live for you from now on. I ask you to fill me with love so that I can love other people with a pure love. Fill me with love so that I can love you with all of my heart. Amen.

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