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why does life suck?

Posted by christian at April 26, 2010
Tags: 2010 April  Juvenile problems  Loneliness  Meaninglessness

okay so most people would say life isnt that bad, but in truth, it really is. nothing has really happened lately but i really feel i am a nobody. i have tons of friends but im not close to anyone. my BEST friend who i loved like a brother moved and i have no contact with him because of his pill head mom. the "special girl" i like really digs me too, but i know if i asked her out she would tell me no. shes just so cool but so shy to that kind of stuff. i have no one to connect to and its tearing me apart. i would never do suicide but life does really suck. im a big christian, (as my name,) and i have a relationship with god, but still. i dont know what to do. i feel like cutting but just to relieve stress, and no aim to kill. im locked up in my own world and its becoming a night mare. people that have no controll over me tell me what to do and ive had enough, considering every bit has no reason. if their is a good reason, i follow their wishes but it gets annoying. when ur first kiss is with a hoe and she dates all of ur friends, it also lets u know that what u had was nothing special. i look at everyone else in my grade as little kids, but some are older than me. i feel older inside thatmn i really am. im really young but i feel i should be older. i guess u could say im an adult in a kids body. it feesls good to let it all out and releive some stress. but now i have to go back to my suckish life.


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By anonymous at 27,Apr,10 19:01

i have a forensics degree. i am so smart and no one will hire me. my husband thinks i am a cheat. i hate life. i live precariously through my daughter. i am going to school this fall and am not looking forward to it. i hate everyone and everything. I know my worth but in society it does not amount to much. Which is a complete load of shit.


i am drinking again
By christian at 28,Apr,10 17:19

lol i guess we know how eachother feels. it really sucks when there is so much you can do and it leads to nothing. i guess all we can do is pray ;) and u shouldnt drink too much lol
By anonymous at 07,Aug,11 18:24

praying will get you nowhere... its a cruch that people use to help them through things... it is only self satisfying if u are into that stuff... pray all u want nothing will get better
By anonymous at 18,Oct,11 00:06

I hate you no cares about your bitching anonymous
By anonymous at 05,Dec,15 14:12

By anonymous at 27,Mar,16 14:15

Hate life
By anonymous at 26,Oct,11 21:54 Fold Up

okay, prayer will always get you somewhere God may not answer right away but you will see his bigger plan in the long runn ! and whoever your are that told this woman nothing will get better ?? are you seriouis why try to make someone feel worst come on dont be stupid and obviously you wouldnt have found this page if your like doidnt suck too ... just try and pray and you will feel better !
By anonymous at 14,Nov,11 22:02

god is a lie who is only there to ease the hardships of simple minded blow hards.
By anonymous at 16,Feb,12 22:09

shut the fuck up god is not a lie. if he was a lie then none of us would be alive right now so stop acting like you know everything because no one knows everything. so stop being a cunt and don't judge people
By anonymous at 14,Apr,14 01:09

dumb fuck.
By anonymous at 21,Mar,16 08:48

wow u suck
By anonymous at 17,Jun,12 20:01 Fold Up

This is true in a sense...Many people beleive in a god who created us but it was not a man it was nature, My god is nature and for the no-one can argue it. We are here with out a doubt so god(nature) created us. We are god.Every person is their own god. Same goes with the "Devil". Its just stupid names we gave it that was misleaded for thousands of years. I dont like using the word "GOD". People get the wrong impression of what i am talking about. We are all connected and I jumped up out of bed and wrote this...instantly. Why? Coincidence? Maybe a reason for one of you? Maybe I am writing this to myself to help myself. We all have good/Evil in us. Which is a god/devil. Neither of these identities really exist physically but are energies that are very powerful. Heres proof...A man kidnaps a 5 year old child, He rapes the boy and slits his throat. Is this Evil? Is this man a Devil? The answer is YES
If you say "NO" well you are on the otherside, maybe you can understand why someone would do that, and it is acceptable. Well you are Evil
By anonymous at 17,Jun,12 20:15 Fold Up

I am a man of science and prayer absolutley works. Not saying a single prayer is going to give us world peace but it gives hope. Prayer is scientifical proven to work and we do not know why it works even if the person didn't know someone was praying for them. The healing process is quicker with prayer. I think the reason why it works is because "Thought" or a "thought" can actually be measured in a frequency very small and weak. But still can be measured on a machine. Universe cannot exist without thought entering into it. I have rpoven this and will prove it to you. Think of something small you want for free, something small not a billion dollars or a ferrari. Something like umm a computer or a t.v. Find a picture of it and stick it on your door in your bedroom, also copy it to your desktop. Put a picture of it in your car,locker,office so that image is in your head. that thought is projected out into the universe. It will come to you. My son did it with a ipod but by accident he cut out a picture of a Iphone they look alike. I told him thats not a ipod he said well it looks like one, well anyways one month he got a iphone FREE. I also did it with a suzuki gsxr1000. it worked that took about a month too. I guess its kinda like a crackhead, when they runout, yes i too was a crackhead at one point. But they WILL find a way to get it one way or another...right? It is on there mind 24/7 thats what makes an addict. THOUGHT BECOME THINGS
By anonymous at 17,Jun,12 19:47 Fold Up

Life does suck royally, but you need to find the things you get enjoyment from. I am very poor and I am so sick of worrying about money and everyone around me saying the same shit. I guess I am trying to be simple as possible in my life. I dont date because most girls are douches. Friends are usually a pain in the ass. I try to #1 smoke pot daily and find the fun things in life for me it is riding my streetbike,fishing and spending time with my son. Bottom line is LIFE DOES SUCK. So either kill yourself or suffer through it. I considered suicide around 3000 times. but your death will affect many many people whether you beleive it or not. I have a son that I try to keep a positive attitude around. But what helped me the most was FORGET about what you want. All the things you wish you had FLUSH IT DOWN THE TOILET for now, and think of the good side of things. I know it sounds like shit but, when I lay down at night and it is quiet. That is peace, I am happy there are not bombs or guns going off, or I dont need to watch over my shoulder like when I went to prison (twice). For bullshit charges dumb bitch said I hit her when I didn't beleive what you may. Be happy you have oodle of noodles for supper. Most of you havent been down in the shit. Have you experienced war? Prison? Near death? I am a man of science and always said god was bullshit, it is a cruch I guess. I have surrendered to a higher being.That being said I would never go to church and I hate HOLLY ROLLERS. I tell the jahovas witness to piss off. But I still look toward the higher being, it is something inside me it is not a white bearded man,cause thats bullshit. My god is something very different it is a "connection" that connects all of us together along with the trees and sun and everything. Once you can feel that we are connected to everything around you, you will understand what I am talking about. I studied quantum physics for many years and wrote many philosophies on the subject. The small difference in the world we make is bullshit,thats what gets you mad. The reason of not understanding why you were born pisses you off. I get it and live with it everyday. There cant always be a clown to entertain you 24/7. Thats what makes life boring too. You need to understand these things I am writing. I came to this page because I asked myself "why people hate life" If you hate life you hate yourself. Something that makes you feel guilty get over it and forgive yourself. I have done many hanis acts in my life beyond what i can write here. People can change and living here on earth is HELL, when you die its HEAVEN meaning that you need not worry anymore because you are DEAD. My brain moves very quickly and thought come to me at great speeds and it makes it tough for me to cope but I am not giving up, stop being a lil bitch...Life is a struggle! Are you up for the struggle? If you answer "NO". Then consider death. You cant be a pussy about life and killing yourself. Choose one and move on. Remember and dont forget the changes you will make in people lives that love you, besides we only live till 70-90 thats not very long....Drink moderately, smoke some good pot and have a attitude of gratitude. Be Thankful. Laughing my ass off a few times a week is worth living, fuck money! Consume only what you need to survive. Be generous and share,help out others when you see they need help. Become a better person, Fuck the Government,fuck the Wars to make rich people richer. Stay away from society Oh and smoke pot!!!!!!
By anonymous at 17,Jun,12 19:51

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By anonymous at 17,Jun,12 20:05 Fold Up

You are creating your own hell. #1 The economy sucks, guys think girls are whores which many of them are, Life is a struggle..DUH. Who doesnt live through their kids its normal. School sucks I am enrolled and not looking forward to it but I want to go thats why we signed up, quit if you dont want to go. Everyone does suck for the most part. You hate everything? Even sex? People dont amount to shit alone but together I beleive things could get better.

By anonymous at 02,May,10 22:38

I TOTALY understand how you feel, about feeling like an adult, trapped in a child's body. I too, am just like this. I can't relate to ppl my own age. Then, recently I kinda figured out why, although, your feelings may be for a different reason: At my school, I have the highest test scores out of every grade, even those older than me. Teachers say that I'm 'gifted'. I searched it online, and found alot of interesting things. If you too are like this, search it online, seriously. Some of the websites suck, but others helped me in a way. because at least now i know why i feel like this.
By christian at 04,May,10 21:56

thats the thing. im not gifted. i just feel more mature. but some good has come out. the 'special girl' i liked, asked ME out, just today. ;) it really helps.
By anonymous at 12,Jul,10 00:40

wow i wish i still felt the way u do i used to feel like that in high school and then it only got worse from there. i spent the last 10 years of my life high on anything i could get my hands on and have lost everybody in my life now almost thirty and everything i own fits into 2 small boxes and i have nobody left that will even talk to me. life is good when your that age trust me it can get alot worse.
By at 18,Dec,10 11:32

where u from ???
By Angela at 30,Oct,11 00:00 Fold Up

Find a friend. There's definitely someone for every one. My life sucks badly as well. I'm just a teen so my parents control my life. BTW if i were u i would listen to christian
By at 10,Jan,12 12:55

people can beleive what ever they want to believe
By at 10,Jan,12 12:54 Fold Up

i know life can get worse. im only 17 and my life has gone down hill. if its this bad now i dont want to even see what its like in 20 years. let alone 10.of course i know, this isnt my first life. ever think thats why it hurts so much?
By anonymous at 16,Nov,11 13:26 Fold Up

quit bitching
By anonymous at 16,Feb,12 22:07

there not bitching there ranting everyone needs a source of relief this is there's if you're here to criticize them then maybe you shouldn't be on this site
By anonymous at 28,Mar,12 22:23 Fold Up

U really are lucky man. I like this girl but Im just afraid she'll reject me... Cuz all my former relationships equal to a piece of crap. Just plain bad.

By anonymous at 05,Jan,12 22:19

I was raped by my dad from age 7 to age 12 (I知 a guy by the way.) When I was 8 I developed severe OCD. I知 not talking about social OCD, where someone likes things extremely neat. My OCD consists of me washing my hand until they bleed. I also repeatedly do things a certain number of times, usually until I fall down crying on the floor, and then I still repeatedly do the action. My parents, especially my dad, didn稚 want me talking to a counselor, or therapist, (because of the sexually abuse) so I had/have to just live with it. At age 11, I had very poor social skills, due to abuse and a debilitating mental disease, so I had absolutely no fiends. At age 12 I became extremely depressed and suicidal, I have thought about ending my life every single day since I was 12. I have never acted on my suicidal desires, but I知 thinking it about time I do. I still have OCD, I知 still depressed, I知 still suicidal, I still have no friends, and I知 still completely broken from all the rape. I知 so sexually messed up I highly doubt I知 every going to be able to have consensual sex with someone.
By at 10,Jan,12 13:04

i cant begin to understand what you went thru. and i dont pity you, pity is not fun, but i understand (i think) the pain that you pain is caused by something else, but it hurts just as much.i wish i could help you. ive never said this before, but i was severly well i dont know, the first time i had sex, something happend its like my mind broke, im sstill not over it and its been alomst a year. the memories hurt, and its worse because i love him. i cant begin to explain what happen, but i know that i cant have sex,i know ive tried, but it kills me.
By anonymous at 17,Jan,12 23:23 Fold Up

Hi there - I just read your post. I don't know if you are ever going to read this but I wanted to write to you anyways. I honestly wish I could take your pain away. You have endured horrible suffering and it was absolutely wrong. I hope you have someone you can talk to - a medical professional. I do believe that you can heal and overcome what you have been through. I don't understand everything that happened to you but I do understand depression. I get the feeling of loneliness. Please don't give up. Please. I know you can overcome this. You have been through so much pain. You are strong enough to overcome your pain, your depression, your OCD, your confusion over sexuality. You are bigger than all of that and do have the ability. I speak from experience when I say that life is extremely challenging and it can suck. But, you have the right to exist in this world and claim your entitlement. Choose life. I don't know why you had to suffer. I don't know why anyone has to suffer. All I know is that it would be shame if you gave into your suicidal thoughts. Please try to just hang in there. I don't know you but I am just a soul trying to get through to another soul. It takes great courage to choose life but there is a lot of beauty in life and you will find it if you choose the path to living.
By anonymous at 16,Feb,12 21:58 Fold Up

i will probably never understand your pain but all i know is that if you talk about it and try to smile and see the brightness in things life will get better. I am only a child i guess and i just hope that someday you will have a smile on your face that can light up the world.
By anonymous at 28,Mar,12 22:28

Uh, im sorry to rock ur world a bit, but in reality, putting a simple smile on your face doesn't fix squat. I've tried seeing good out of bad. Do you know what it led me to? That it doesn't matter what you do, if ur life sux, It sux. Just like mine. Sorry if I just made those who feel like crap feel worse, but I feel you. Not in a weird way, but I know how u feel, cuz my life is a bunch of crap put together in the best way possible to look good, but in the end its just crap. Life sucks.
By anonymous at 18,Mar,12 02:41 Fold Up

wow im so sorry you had to go though that... ive been raped before too trust me it was horrible i still dont trust guys (by the way im a girl) but i pushed through it. you can do it to i believe in you. i really do. keep holding on. i know you can.
By anonymous at 26,Aug,14 21:54 Fold Up

I'm sorry someone who was suppose to protect you hurt you. It's not your fault. Please do not give up your life. I will be your friend. You are worth living for. :)
By anonymous at 26,Aug,14 21:57 Fold Up

I have OCD too. If you need to talk contact me.

By anonymous at 04,Feb,12 11:20

wow believe in what u want god's not real
By anonymous at 16,Feb,12 21:53

do you really have to say that when obviously thats going to offend someone
By anonymous at 28,Mar,12 22:32 Fold Up

Can u prove if he's real or not? Exactly, the answer is no. just cuz YOU cant see the religious side of things doesnt justify your reason to state that God isnt real. I believe God may exist in the 4th dimension. If u dint know what im talking about, go read a book by michio kaku called "hyperspace" (those of u who r young, plz dont read it, unless ur a genius. Because youll just end up mind boggled beyond mental capacity)
Basically, GOD IS REAL.

By at 16,Feb,12 21:52

i say that no matter how bad life get's it will always get better just keep holding on to the light and when you're having a bad day you can always turn it around with a smile.I mean life is gonna suck at some points but if you just try to stay happy then it wont suck as bad.
By at 10,Apr,12 03:31

Well, Winston Churchill once said "If you are going through hell, keep going." and I belive that and belive you can.

By fed up at 04,Mar,12 16:00

Its truely sad when people think that they have the right to make fun of people's suffering. I lay a curse on them! May they suffer ten million times ten million, what we who have lost someone we loved have suffered! May they feel suicidal, may their life's be miserable like us who are suffering! Til U have felt pain, til U are at Ur last, til U beg for someone to understand, may U worthless jerks feel our pain!
By anonymous at 28,Mar,12 22:34

Amen!!! Preach it brotha! (OR sista!)
Pain us not enjoyable. Especially when ur life sucks.

By anonymous at 13,Mar,12 15:01

life suckz den u die.....................

By at 10,Apr,12 03:28

Wow, really, this is a shame, you are all listening to people not what really matters, you, you need to take your hand and think about what needs to be done, think about what that beats for, feel the passion, I was depressed and sorrowful, but then I fell in love, and miraculously she shares the feelings for me, and I got the strenght to wake up in the morning to do what has to be done. My heart beats for her, all you have to do is find what or who your heart beats for, and life just becomes so much easier. I was never the happiest person, I always tried, even if I didn't want to because I knew it was good for me, but I really didn't care if it hurt me, I never intentionally hurt myself but never did anything to stop the pain. Now all I do is make life easier, let this bullshit acidity out, this baleful anger, but let it out peacefully, don't degrade somebody else, what right do you have to tell somebody what kind of a person how shitty they are and you havent even met them yet somehow you are willing to crush somebodys hopes and that is wrong, you safe behind your computer are hurting somebody beyond comprehension, and you were telling them they were horrid you people who would degrade somebody you know nothing about truely nothing are monsters.

By anonymous at 14,Apr,12 04:23

life does suck, my shit is probably not that serious compared to other stories but it really sucks for me. I'm just a regular guy, i'm in the airforce and i've got a decent job but i can't concentrate. Since i was 11 i've had this desire to be a female, i try fighting it, did the therapy and shrink thing and it doesn't go away. Imagine trying to live your life with this bullshit running around in the back of your head, middle school and through a hellish 4 years of high school, it really is agonizing. I was told it was a phase, that the feelings would pass but nope. They're still here at 22, i don't think i'll ever get better i feel so wierd around people like i don't fit, must be something wired wrong in my head

By anonymous at 19,Apr,12 20:04

Life sucks because I'm OCD. I get a new car and bam, some inconsiderate asshole puts a door ding in it. I drive to work careful not to ride close to the car in front of me to avoid rocks hitting my windshield and what happens? A friggin rock flies up from an 18 wheeler going the opposite direction and shatters it. The thing has 3000 miles on it and already looks like crap. I hate everone and everything. My sorry ass inlaws brings their "cute" little kids over who tear the house apart and the parents say nothing. I constantly do work for the inlaws because they know I do a good job and it takes up all my time. I can't relax or stop my mind from thinking. I constantly look around the house for the next broken thing to fix. Just wish I didn't care about all this shit. I too will be glad when I'm dead and gone and don't have the material trappings to worry about incessantly. We have really screwed ourselves with all this technology and "stuff". F**K it all.

By anonymous at 21,Apr,12 18:51

Dude, I know exactly how you feel.. I have this girl that digs me but she is dating someone else and I lost my virginity to a hoe haha, and I know exactly how you feel about wanting to feel older. I'm in 8th grade and I feel like I'm surrounded by second graders. It's so annoying. I cut once and it actually does nothing.. I know a lot of people heard this already but just be patient. It solves everything.

By anonymous at 26,Jun,13 21:39

I know how you feel. I hate my life. I had move out of the country and leave all my friends and family. Including my dad. I also had to leave the girl I think I loved. Idk if I do. But man I just wanted to tell you that I understand you pain I feel like no one understands. I'm big Christian too hell my peraents are pastors but I feel like no one is here for me.

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By anonymous at 25,Oct,14 16:46

Well my love life really Sucks since many women are Gay today and it is very hard for us Straight Guys looking for a Good one that is Normal, that is if there are any left.

By anonymous at 07,Dec,14 19:14

life is what you make it. quit being victims.

By anonymous at 08,May,15 18:13

im going to kill myself now

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dont kill yourself theres billion of others to kill first. i live for revenge.

By J Rat at 18,Jan,16 00:45

I just want to add a slightly different perspective than the advice I've read here. Life can get better too. Granted, moments of joy are like being allowed breaths of air on a water board sometimes, but then you might find greater peace than you've described thus far. Try meditation, yoga, nutrition, karate; some type of physical, even strenuous gainful activity (work? nah that sucks too)

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