many ways my life sucks | Posted by loser_l at July 20, 2011 | Tags: General 2011 July |
Many Ways My Life Sucks
1--Got Girlfriend that wont touch me
2--got spoiled kids
3--One of the spoiled kids doesnt like me --egged my car cause i stop her from going to facebook in the house
4--The other spoiled kid never wants to be around me
5--have a sucky job
6--havent had a raise in 3yrs
7--got a felony from being a follower
8--lost all my friends i grew up with because i snitched
9--mother died early age
10--father never wanted me
11--grandmother only wanted a check to raise me
12--dont know if my kid is even mine
13--cant focus on school
14--lazy when I dont wanna be
15--gotta pay for school outta my pocket
16--always in debt
17--always getting my license suspendid cause cant afford insurance
18--im a ticket magnet for the cops
19--work for people that want to treat you like a child
20--nothing ever goes my way
21--this is'nt the life i wanted for myself
22--gotta annoying person walks pass my office everyday screaming "do some work"
23--always feel angry because of this list
24--always broke
25--cant save money
26--hard to find new job
27--cant work for the gov because of my record
28--I drink too much because of list
29--always feel like girlfriend cheating because she wont touch me
30--got problems trusting people
31--girlfriend separated but still married to husband wont devorice him for some reason claims navy benefits
32--feel like im a failure at life
33--have no friends
34--cant afford to keep my car in good shape
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Find out why. You have kids. She touched you once. Listen.
2--got spoiled kids
Stop spoiling them.
3--One of the spoiled kids doesnt like me --egged my car cause i stop her from going to facebook in the house
Establish rules. Be consistent.
4--The other spoiled kid never wants to be around me
Could be normal, depending on age.b
5--have a sucky job
Look for new job
6--havent had a raise in 3yrs
Look for new job
7--got a felony from being a follower
Not sure what follower is. Live with it and dont do it again.
8--lost all my friends i grew up with because i snitched
Strength of character is not a bad thing
9--mother died early age
Very sorry to hear. She wouldnt want you blaming her death on your life though I guess. Live as if she were watching. She would want you happy.
10--father never wanted me
A fault in him, not you.
11--grandmother only wanted a check to raise me
A fault in her. Not you. A child is innocent of everything.
12--dont know if my kid is even mine
Does it matter if you love them like a father? A father isnt a DNA donation, its who raises them.
13--cant focus on school
Deal with the rest and this will follow.
14--lazy when I dont wanna be
You make yourself lazy. No one else. Demand more of yourself.
15--gotta pay for school outta my pocket
Always tough. Seek help for funding. Failing that seek help on how to find funding.
16--always in debt
Deal with priorities first. Seek help on debt. There are charities/ organisations who advise for free.
17--always getting my license suspendid cause cant afford insurance
Deal with the above and you will afford insurance as a result of earning more.
18--im a ticket magnet for the cops
Take responsibility. These are symptoms of your actions, nothing more.
19--work for people that want to treat you like a child
Respect their positions, if not their intellect. They are responsible for what happens, even if they fuck it up alot.
20--nothing ever goes my way
Again a symptom of your actions and attitude. Change it and this will go away.
21--this is'nt the life i wanted for myself
Take action. Do what matters. DOnt bullshit yourself.
22--gotta annoying person walks pass my office everyday screaming "do some work"
Seek help with bullying laws. And dont give them a reason to scream.
23--always feel angry because of this list
Again, there is help out there. Find it.
24--always broke
Deal with the above. It will change.
25--cant save money
Again, it will change if you deal with the fundamental problems.
26--hard to find new job
Keep up looking. It will happen if you keep looking eventually. It WONT happen if you stop.
27--cant work for the gov because of my record
There are more places to work than the govt.
28--I drink too much because of list
Seek help with drinking. The reasons above are probably why you drink. Its a symptom, not a problem. Its self-medication.
29--always feel like girlfriend cheating because she wont touch me
Talk to her. Dont get angry. Be calm. If you get angry walk away and continue another time. Start by telling her you want it to work. Bear in mind she may have problems too.
30--got problems trusting people
Understandable. Learn to judge liars and good people. not easy but can be done.
31--girlfriend separated but still married to husband wont devorice him for some reason claims navy benefits
Discuss your reasons with her. Again talking is important. Dont leave problems alone. A small problem now, if left a long time, will become a neglected problem later and much more difficult to deal with.
32--feel like im a failure at life
There are no success criteria for life. Just live your life and try to live well. Keep respect for yourself and others. Do what you know is right.
33--have no friends
Join a club. Start a club. talk to a stranger to just discuss the day. Anything. Do something different every single day. Something you would never do. Find what it is you would never do, and then do it.
34--cant afford to keep my car in good shape
I feel this one! My car is crap too. If you can, do without a car. (hard in the USA I know but easier in the rest of the world!). Dont be its slave.
Seriously. Life is about the fight, not about winning. There is no such thing as winning. Its the struggle. only when you stop do you truly fail.
Take care and keep up the struggle. I watch you.
I wish you all the best, OP. It's gonna be fine. Stay confident.
P.S. Ditch the drinking as well. I know it's not that easy, but just try to stop, make yourself want to stop. That way you can have more time to do something that is actually of any use, and, again, save money.
think hardly, i know you'll find one.
don't think negative things like that it will only worsen you.
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