I met my husband back in 2005. We got married in 2007. He and I both worked had two dogs and had a pretty decent life. He had a temper that was pretty scary but I thought whatever. His anger turned to throwing things and pure violence. He would throw me against the wall and hold me down while screaming at me. He told me of a house in Georgia that was his aunt's and we could live their. My father had recently passed away and I came into some money. I bought myself a car and he totaled mine which was just paid off so I gave him money to put down on a car. Then I invested money into this home for the rent, needed repairs etc.
His temper started to get worse when we realized we invested in a money pit shit house. He would throw things, break things and began to sleep walk. He would throw me into walls, pull my hair, grab my arms and call me names. He never told me he loved me and never came near me.
Long story short he got his new car repossessed and put a title loan on my car that I paid for in cash. We had no money or any food.
I finally caved and called my mom and stepdad who offered us a place at home. All we had to do was work. We packed up in 2 days. I sold everything. I gave away everything. We drove to NJ. He said he would work. He said he would work from home. I got a part time job but could not find anything full. By this time his anger turned to depression and he spoke of black cars, being followed, cameras watching him etc. He planned his suicide. He was obsessed with serial killers. He's an author.
He came to me one day and told me Paypal (where he got paid) was holding his money and it was frozen. He told me he was in a class action lawsuit with the attorney general and was working has had as he could. He slept with cable ties in case he wanted to kill himself and would stay up for days at a time. I finally FINALLY convinced him to go to the ER for mental depression. He did.
He got transferred to a psych ward and was there for 4 weeks. I went to do his charity care and noticed there was nothing on his Paypal stating he had restricted money. He lied. He lied about everything. Not only die he lie and make $2.58 but he also sent emails to his mother telling his parents how horrible my parents were when in truth they were feeding and clothing him.
Finally my stepdad said he was not allowed back into the house until he got his life together. I told him, he flipped. I offered him a halfway house or something to go too but he chose to go home with his mother.
I would get emails.. one stating he loved me and the next telling me what a piece of shit I am.
Now, he has a girlfriend and we're still legally married. I can't file for divorce until August. | |
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