for 12 years, I have not had a relationship. I am so lonely, it is killing me. I cry so many nights and try to hang on. I have a good job that I actually like. I have friends. I travel and spend my free time with activities that I like doing. But I am not loved - loved as a woman should be loved. And would give it all just to have love in my life. I need a man to hold on to and give me the intimacy I crave. I am just so lonely and cannot find someone who remotely would consider being with me. I feel like I am not worth having someone in my life and it is hurting me so much. I feel like I don't deserve being loved. And this sucks...... I am sick and tired of crying. And don't know what to do anymore. | |
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i hope u die lonely bearing no mans seed since u are a rotten person anyway.
To Anonymous 66, I feel your pain and I swear that if you have a job you like, lots of friends, travel a lot and get involved (which you say you do), you will eventually meet someone who loves you how you deserve to be loved. I sincerely believe that, even if you don't at this point :)
just wanted to make it clear that my answer right above ("You sound like a decent, sweet, bright guy") was for anonymous at 10/4/12. My "higher" answer ("You need to find other groups" was anonymous at 11/14/12. Best to you all.
-Try Online dating, there's free sites like match.com and okcupid, give it a try, everyone online is not a weirdo.
-You could also try a matchmaker, check to see if there are any in your city.
-You should also look for singles events locally like speed dating, etc.
-Ask your friends if they know anyone that can hook you up
-Come out of your shell a little, if you see someone interesting approach them first
-Hang out at a Sports Bar
-Go to a Salsa/Ballroom Class
-Go to a nice lounge, make a game of it with your friends so it wont be so serious, like by the end of the night each of you has to get 10 phone numbers
Sometimes really cheesy pickup lines can make a person laugh because they're so corny, but they start a conversation
Hope this helps, if you want a man, you should actively look for one or go out, he's not just going to turn up at your door step. Good luck!
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