I have read a lot of stories and it made my problem smaller and smaller. And I’m happy for that. I can find strength in the stories of other people and the solutions for my problems in the stories of other people.
The stories I have read here breaks my heart. It’s unbelievable how some people can have such a horrible life. I just want to take you in my arms and drag you away from the situation you are in. Built a house and have you and your loved ones live in it in safety and free of worry.
There are a lot of situations I have no experience in whatsoever, but I will try to cheer you up as best as I can.
As hard as you might try to deny it, there are tons of things that is good about you. Just reach deep down there. Things you might not notice at first. That you wave at dismissively. Because there are so many qualities people do have and tons of qualities people don’t have and wish they had. So if you have found a quality, then I just want you to know: tons of people wish they had that quality. And you have it!
So you’re good at writing stories? Believe it or not, not everybody has got a rich imagination and you should cherish that talent.
So you’re a good listener? That is something this site needs and a lot of people appreciate you!
Believe that you will get out of your situation. Set up a goal you want to reach and try to think of the best path to reach it. Dare to hope. I find it so much easier to live from goal to goal. I have so much motivation and I bet there is a lot more satisfaction. Don’t rest until you’ve reached the first goal and don’t rest until you’ve reached the final goal.
And this was something I was tipped on:
Be honest to the people around you. If something really bothers you, then say it. If it involves one of your parents, who don’t seem to understand you at all, just say it seriously under four-eyes. Be a little vulnerable but that also underlines the amount of trouble you are having with the problem. Maybe it isn’t as bad as you think.
I hope it helps. I know it doesn’t apply to everyone, but I still hope that I motivated some people ._.
I hope that your horrible circumstances won’t become your life but merely become a part of it and will then completely disappear and you will live in one of those homes built by me, living a happy and worry-free life.
And I hope that you will find a lot of other things to enjoy in life.
Good luck and keep your heads up, I believe that you will get out of it.
Not neccessarily by my methods but... I just have a feeling situations aren't as hopeless as they seem.
I hope I made you feel a little bit better :)
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