I always drew strength from my marriage. Having faith that I had the security of my relationship with my wife allowed me to have the confidence to go forth and take on the world. Then I found out my wife was unfaithful. It has hurt my psyche more than I could have ever imagined. I think I'm ugly, physically and intellectually, because my wife had the need to find satisfaction outside of the marriage. I have no more confidence in myself. My job has always sucked, but the strength in the knowledge that my marriage was solid allowed me to perservere. Now my job sucks, my marriage sucks, my life sucks. I have very little going for me. For the first time in my life, I actually understand the plight of those who have taken their own lives. | |
when your brain says "but u'll miss her"
then tell it to shutup immediately.. u are being eaten alive!
RUN!!!!
If you and your wife love each other then you can work this out. But you BOTH need to be on board- to rectify your marriage. Go to marriage counseling. Heal. If everyone got divorced because of infidelity, NO ONE would be married. Do you know why she felt the need to find someone else? Were you unavailable emotionally, physically? Did something tragic happen to her? There's a reason she cheated. And if you love her, then you need to forgive her, and move on. Not sure how many years you've been married, but the grass is not greener on the other side. True love is very hard to find and we are human, and we do make mistakes.
Try counseling before you jump the gun and lose the only thing you cherish because you're angry-
Be strong-
Follow your heart-
Cursed
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