2 years to work up the courage to tell my best friend how I feel about her. She laughs and says I'm like her brother. Yet now doesn't want anything to do with me.
So your best friend "friend zoned" you- but now she knows your true feelings for her, and she has "blocked" you completely- that's tough:( So much for being honest and expressing your feelings! Anyhow, that sucks.
How about trying online dating? There may be someone out there that you "click" with- only an email away?
In any case, I hope that you can find some happiness in your life, as we all deserve to be happy...
Good luck-
Cursed
I'm sorry that your friend doesn't return your feelings... And I'm so sorry that she handled things in such a hurtful way; for what it's worth, she may not have had any idea of what it took for you to tell her - or of how much her unprepared reaction hurt.
In the long-run, she did the kindest thing possible by being honest (though she could have done it in a better way!). To give you false hope or to go along with a relationship only to dump you when someone she was more attracted to came along would have been far crueler. It must feel awful to have lost her friendship too. But this way there is no room for anyone to deceive each other/themselves, and you can move on with you life.
If you are someone who genuinely cares for others and is interested in them, then it will get better. Now matter how bad it is now, it will get better. Be around people you can be your real self with and you can open up to. I wish you the very best of luck, and that you find a girl whom you feel safe and loved and accepted and exhilarated by all at once - she is out there, you just have to find her!
PS: I forgot to say that you were incredibly brave to risk everything by telling her your feelings. I think that I would have been to shy/cowardly to do so... If I am being completely honest I would probably have waited for my friend to make a move in your position, and retained the fantasy that one day we would get together. That's much easier than finding the courage to risk everything to make your real life as good as the fantasy one. Once again, good luck. I know that there are girls out there who will appreciate you and love you for who you really are. -Cora :-)
How about trying online dating? There may be someone out there that you "click" with- only an email away?
In any case, I hope that you can find some happiness in your life, as we all deserve to be happy...
Good luck-
Cursed
In the long-run, she did the kindest thing possible by being honest (though she could have done it in a better way!). To give you false hope or to go along with a relationship only to dump you when someone she was more attracted to came along would have been far crueler. It must feel awful to have lost her friendship too. But this way there is no room for anyone to deceive each other/themselves, and you can move on with you life.
If you are someone who genuinely cares for others and is interested in them, then it will get better. Now matter how bad it is now, it will get better. Be around people you can be your real self with and you can open up to. I wish you the very best of luck, and that you find a girl whom you feel safe and loved and accepted and exhilarated by all at once - she is out there, you just have to find her!
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