Okay.... This is how it goes... My mom died when I was 4.... And I lived with my loving dad and grandma. Untill 3 years ago when my dad married this b**ch that had a kid with her. She seemed nice before the marriage.. But after the marriage she ruined our family.. Before my family was the one ppl said had the cleanest house ever seen. And now you can see the dust everywhere. She HATES ME.. She favors her kid completely!! They eat out foods like pigs.. When her lid does something wrong... She screams at me more than him. I talk to my dad about this, but I know he can't do anything because she troubles him too. She threatens him that she will divorce him. And in Canada. Women get a lot of power. If she divorces him.. She gets half my dads current money.. His house... And a percent of his salary every month.. I hate her son too.. Although he's younger then me.. He gets away with things.. And he screams at me and is very rude to me.. | |
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I am so sorry about your mum. How awful. So are you and your dad close? Why not have a heart to heart with him? You're stepmother sounds like a control freak, so it would be best to chat with him when she is not around... like duh? Obviously, right?
But it may be hard to catch him- when she isn't around? In any case, you definitely want to explain how you feel, how she is treating you, and most importantly, what can be done to resolve the tension.
It doesn't sound like they are heading to divorce court anytime soon, so you're gonna be stuck with her for a while...
The best way to handle control freaks is to let them think that they "thought of it first"
Try not to challenge her- it will only make things worse for you-
control freaks will do anything to remain "in control" so she is most likely a master of manipulation.
Understand this-
Internalize it-
And then when she pulls her "MIND CONTROL" MANIPULATION thing, just stare at her, and go- YES. I WILL DO WHATEVER YOU SAY. YOU ARE THE QUEEN. YOU ARE SUPREME RULER OF YOUR UNIVERSE. I AM JUST HERE TO SERVE YOU-
Use sarcasm and humor to get under her skin.
It will drive her crazy to see she has no affect on you. And ultimately, you win.
Good luck Kid,
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