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Second Fiddle

Posted by anonymous at April 16, 2010
Tags: 2010 April  Attitude  Juvenile problems

i have come to realize over the course of the last two years that god or the fates or whatever is out there has designated me to play second fiddle in everything i do. in school i am smart, but still i am second in the class. in choir i try to work hard, but no matter how much effort i put into it, i dont make the audition choirs and the special selections, while a girl in my year who isn't very good at all makes it in despite her inability to be anything more then mediocre. but the thing that really solidified my now steadfast opinion that i am the dictionary definition of second fiddle was today in practice my coach said "the other coaches and i were discussing players who would be good secondary players in the positions and your name just kept popping up." i can understand he was probably trying to tell me he thought i was a well rounded player, but it seems to me that it's all i'm ever going to amount to. the goddamn bench warmer. just in case any of our starters dont feel up to the job of hogging the spotlight you definitely on the top od the list to step in until they feel better. great, thanks coach.


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By anonymous at 16,Apr,10 09:48

You can't be first at everything. You just can do whatever you do the best you can and try to screw up at it the less you can.

By looser at 16,Apr,10 12:57

yeah, i'm just glad i aint "the last fiddle" in everithing (i'm not sure about the latter)

By anonymous at 16,Apr,10 17:25

You should be happy with what you have. You are the second in class, perhaps you should be fond of that
life isnt bad because you dont get everything. Some people dont get anything

By Mirror image at 17,Apr,10 20:45

Think of the people that would like to be able to learn, but cannot because of a disability. Think of the kid that wishes he could play sports, but he cannot because of a handicap. They would love to just participate. I suggest you attend some special olympics events and see how much it really means just to participate. It's amazing that people with so many obstacles can enjoy themselves so much, just because they have a chance.

By anonymous at 18,Apr,10 20:14

You seem pretty damn spoilt.
Your life doesn't suck in comparison to millions of other people out there, quit your 2nd fiddle nonsence ffs.

By anonymous at 19,Apr,10 18:15

Seriously? Just wait until you get older and older and older and die.
By anonymous at 28,Apr,10 23:17


By Trisha at 12,Jun,11 18:45

Fell out of bed feelnig down. This has brightened my day!

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