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I don't know what happened. . .

Posted by Missing Mojo at December 13, 2011
Tags: 2011 December  Loneliness  Mistakes  Money

I am a 31 year old male. I have been to college and graduated. When I was done with college I still did not know what I was supposed to do with my life, so I decided that I should be keep going with my education. This led me to going to law school.

I attended law school for 3 years until I realized that I could not be a lawyer. Of course at that point I was already buried under literally a mountain of student loan debt. At this time I was in love with my girlfriend who then left me when I told her that I was not going to be a lawyer.

All of this happened almost 4 years ago now. Since, that time I have filed bankruptcy to get rid part of my debt though I am still buried under the student loan debt that I can not get rid of. And to be clear by buried I mean BURIED to the tune of $140,000. I will literally never be able to pay this debt off. I work in retail full time because it is the only job that I can find and I make barely enough money to pay my rent, bills, and put food on the table.

I used to date often and have had many girlfriends in the past but yet I have not dated anyone in nearly 4 years. I am so incredibly lonely. I don't hang out with many of my friends anymore because they have either got married and started families or they have fallen into drugs or alcohol.

I put on a good face to everyone that sees me at all which consists of my family and the people at work. Everyone seems to think I got my act together and things under control but that couldn't be further from the truth.

I am just so depressed about my finances and more than that lonely. I am so utterly lonely. I just wish there was a reset button I could press to go back 10 years ago so I could do some things differently. Because at this point I just don't know what to do. . .


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By at 16,Jan,12 08:49

Get a cash pay job on top of your current job. Cut down the retail hours and make it happen. Have more money for now.

Debt? Cant Pay if off? Is ok, you are not the only one. Live by and find women like your-self who cant pay off their debt. Where do you find them? The internet is good, blog is good, old colleagues on facebook are good. Post-colleague girls buffet on facebook, if you remeber the fullnames, of course.

By anonymous at 16,Jan,12 20:35

You sound to be quite a decent person. Try to believe in yourself now a bit more. No doubt you've had really tough stuff to deal with. I can relate with what you say. I wish you luck and remember that you must not blame yourself because things didn't quite happen the way you wanted them to. This has happened to many of us.

By anonymous at 18,Jan,12 17:40

You have a lot going for you! Go to counseling and figure out what kind of person you want to be and do it!! A lot of people have been through this!!

By anonymous at 19,Jan,12 02:01

You seem smart. Why can't you be a lawyer? I say you find your sack and push through to become one. If it's impossible then find a woman who is in your shoes and live a simple life.

By anonymous at 01,Feb,12 16:30

1. dont think about your love life until you get ur other crap together
2. work as a lawyer and save up some loot
3. once you have some loot you can figure out what you really want to do, maybe being a lawyer isnt so bad
4. then.. you can start looking around for a girl.. noone wants to be with someone whos negative and not working

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