LIFE SUCKS

If he keeps bringing it up that you slept with another man, then perhaps that should tell you that he was never really over it. When you do something like THIS, the image is forever burned into your husband's mind and he'll NEVER get rid of that. You guys need to go over this situation AGAIN and talk it through ALL THE WAY and dig deep into each other's feelings becuase hes probably growing some bitter feelings against you right now. If you were having a mid-life crisis, why didnt you speak to your husband/partner in life about it? why run to an ex-boyfriend?

However, if he's going to keep throwing this in your face, perhaps you need to fight back, show some self-respect and tell him to either talk this out and end the marriage, becuase there's no need for a husband to be in this marriage if he can't trust you and leave the past where it belongs. You both need to learn how to sit down and TALK without yelling and screaming and finger pointing.

If you have nothing to do for yourself then find something to do. There is always something to do in this world. Look up some activities, go to the movies, window shopping, plant some flower, SOMETHIN!

You cheated on him cuz you werent satisfied, maybe theres a reason for that. If he cant put it in the past get a divorce. You said you have to work and take care of the kids. I mean I hate to say that but really. You dont need to answer to a man. Do whats best for you and the kids. You need to be happy for the children, if this guy is making you miserable it will be hell for the kids too, dont drag out the inevitable.

First off you shouldnt have told him. But since you did, either he has to forgive you or you have to move on. I know it is hard, but the last post was right, have self-respect for yourself and dont take his crap. Life is wonderful and you never realize how wonderful it is until you get sick and think you are going to die. Or you are watching someone die which is exactly what has happened to me in the last two months. You have youth and health and many blessings. Dont let a man make you feel your life is worthless.

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