when i was 8 years old i got into a serious accident that disfigured my entire face. I completed elementary school and went on to high school had lots of friends both guys and girls wonderful time the condition of my face never caused any problems and did i mention that i am seriously overweight? well i am 310 pounds of pure wasted space on this earth everything went well i had good social skills and what not although i had no girlfriend but i had a few close friends that were girls. I did well at High School started at a prominent College and that is were it went down hill for me it was as if i never could have fit in there at all i was constantly stared at and made fun of and the the girls were really pretty and they only liked the footballers and basket ballers I had three friends and the rest of guys were really good looking guys and never hung out with me i really felt like a loser in college . I dropped out and it made matters worse the expectance of Par Excellence from my parents and the pressure of my siblings who are well educated.
I am currently 21 years old looking for a job never had a girlfriend never had sex i have no self confidence and esteem and i don't even know how to ask a girl out i am an Ideal loser i see no future for my self and await 2012. I feel like a fat ugly loser who has never achieved anything in life and it really gets to me everytime i watch my disfigured face and i really hate my self. | |
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The only force stronger than steam, electricity or atomic energy is human will. - Albert Einstein
Like the others said you can start a diet and exercise. It would help a lot, you will feel better for your body. I am getting depressed often and I have low self-esteem too and I feel uncomfortable to go to the gym, that's why I take long walks in parks, forests etc, you can also take a bicycle and go around your city.
For the face problem you can try different hair styles or try to have a beard. It is much easier for a guy to hide his face ;)
Exercise and eat well
Get a job packing shelves, anything that requires physical activity
Research and get quotes from plastic surgeons
Have your face fixed. Take charge of your life.
Do a volunteer job which may lead to employment
Study part time something you love
Find that ONE thing that you can do better than most AND BUILD ON IT!!!
The relationship will come within the mix of your self makeover.
GO GETTEM !!!
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