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Posted by bad marriage at December 5, 2010
Tags: 2010 December  Family  Loneliness  Relationship

My life sucks because I知 in a place of confusion; I am in a very lonely verbally abusive marriage. My husband makes good money and supports me and our two children well, but spends his nights with his friends smoking pot and watching sports. Never gives any time to me. I end up upstairs watching movies by myself every night. I moved away from my family and friends and feel very alone. Now, I know most people would say leave him...

And I wish I had the strength and courage to do so. But I'm scared, for my boys, for me. I don't know why I知 so scared. I知 very smart and a go-getter. But have very low self esteem. I just don't understand what I知 doing wrong. I try so damn hard and all he does is complain about everything I do. I feel trapped and so unhappy. I'm going to go talk to someone. Maybe that will be a good start. I have done that before in our marriage but it all comes to same place where I am in now. I don't even know what a good marriage would be like or even a friend anymore.


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By anonymous at 20,Dec,10 19:32

It sounds like he doesn't care about you anymore. I would tell him that the two of you need to go to a marriage therapist. He should also quit the drugs and limit the time he spends with his friends. If he refuses you should divorce his ass. No on should live like that. You need to be with someone that loves and appreciates you. Every human needs this. Best of luck.
By anonymous at 21,Dec,10 12:18

i also they hell with him you ca do better and the we will see how he asks the they just dont care about ooe but there self pigs.

By anonymous at 21,Dec,10 12:21

no marriage therapist will help he is a ass hole and you know it try hard and take his ass for what ever he
's wroth and move on to someone who will love you and your children from a woaman who just left your shoes

By anonymous at 21,Dec,10 14:28

he doesn't deserve a nice woman like yourself if he's not willing to show he cares for you

By anonymous at 21,Dec,10 18:30

thats not even that fucking bad.

By anonymous at 21,Dec,10 23:18

life is too short, move on i am in the same boat with an adopted 8 year old and my wife has no time for either of us i am moving on after the holidays she has no time for anybody but her i love her but cant take the verbal abuse goes on be strong

By anonymous at 23,Dec,10 21:11

What attracted you to him? His money? Are you a gold-digger who found out why this may not be the best way to find a soul mate?

By anonymous at 24,Dec,10 03:10

You only live once...remember he could turn around and dump you...and then what?! Same place as if you had dumped him first...You will survive...I have...and you will be impressed with what you have within...the strength and progress you will make. It wont be easy...but surely this isn't a walk in the park?!

By anonymous at 26,Dec,10 01:03

Well, if you initiate a divorce then because he works he will have to pay child support, but you will still have to find another place and get a job, or you can stay and make yourself happy by doing the things you wanna do, and stay out of his way, keep the house clean, cook, dont piss him off etc...but I don't really know what to tell you.

By at 26,Dec,10 03:29

sounds scary like the burning bed or something. WOW that movie was intense.
The fear you feel is because of the verbal abuse he gives to you. And you either know of feel that it can turn physical.

By moving far from family you allowed him to have complete control of your life. Start getting friends and family involved in your life and wwhat is going on with you immediately for protection as well as support.

Then you can let the negotications begin. You need to tell him that this isnt what you pictured and something has to change or you will. Don't be affraid , if you are affraid of this man, then move someone in with you a realative a neighbor someone needs to talk to you daily for support and back up.

You allowed him to control you when you gave up your entire life and family and friends. You ned to reverse that, and bring them ack into the picture.

He will not treat ou qwrong or harm you if he knows you have friends and family who will back you up.

good luck, I am not and will not say leave his ass, cause you rpobalby wont, however i will say protect yourself get some friends who know you, know the ituation, and ones you talk to throughout the day

By stasharra at 27,Dec,10 04:23

you can do it!just think it through and make sure everthings sett i might not know much but you might end up like my mother my father had scared all of her friends away he abused her and he bad sex with other girls we left him and now he practicly stalks us we have nothing left the famly here is my fathers and my mom is alwase alone.. we know how hard it is but just make sure you and your sons are happy and safe.

By anonymous at 13,Jan,11 19:55

I was in a verbally and emotionally abusive marriage for 16 years. He finally got a girlfriend and divorced me. It is very sad for the kids, but they're resilient. If he's treating you badly please try to be strong and leave. I wish I had someone who told me this years ago. Unfortunately I didn't. After the divorce, I had a breakdown. If only we could do life over. But please don't stay with someone who makes you feel bad. Life is so short and your boys don't need to see that kind of treatment. I also have 2 boys who have turned out very well. It's all so hard but please please try to make a go of it without him

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