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Too Nice

Posted by anonymous at October 26, 2009
Tags: Attitude  Friendship  Money  October 2009  Relationship

I am 18 years old. I am paying for school completely on my own (no help from my parents or loans). I dont even have the money to pay for it, i am two months late on paying now. I am a super nice person but dont get any respect from most people. There is a guy in my one class who got my phone number, and he will text me and ask me to hang out on a certain day, and then when that day comes, he doesnt text me, at all. I just let it go because i expect it now. I would do anything for my family and friends, but lately it just seems like they dont even care. I was in the hospital last weekend, and while at the hospital, i realized how rude and self centered my best friend is. First off i was vomiting for 14 hours that day, and i am laying in the hospital bed and in a rude voice asks if we can trade seats (her lay on the bed and have me sit in an uncomfortable chair) Then we get home and i can finally eat something (the hospital gave me medicane to stop me from vomiting) and my friend asks if i will make her food too. I am still feeling like shit and she wants me to hop up and make her food? Hell no. And my brother was in the hospital, and i drove 45 minutes to see him, and a few days later, its back to normal, me being nice and doing anything i can for him, and him just treating me like shit. I am sick of this. Am i being too nice about things? Do i need to start standing up for myself more?


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By anonymous at 11,Nov,09 10:45

Its so unfair for you how everyone around you are treating you. THEY seriously have an attitudinal problem! Your best friend is so pathetic to treat you like that! You need new friends! Your bro treats you like shit? How? You should so stand up for yourself and tell them your piece of mind. Point out where they treat you wrong. If they are so stubborn to even give you respect, then screw them! Please don't give up on being a nice will meet people who are nice to you back one day! There are so many kinds of people out there, good and bad, its too bad that you don't have the nicer ones around you just yet. I am sure there will be, maybe people at school or work that you don't really know well now, may turn out not bad.
By anonymous at 11,Nov,09 22:09

hee hee and u keep saying that u love them i dont think so ,mainly because u dont expect anything from thm if u love them and .u say u pay for ur fees and all that stuff ok so u are a person who is strong and can stand alone ,it may be very uncomfortable for u friend to see u weak and vulnerable and maybe hat is the reason y he was talking like that and one advice dont turn ur back on people u love it may be their fault but at the end of the day u are the one who loses out .If they are abusive you should leave them .ok take care
PS Everything will be allright

By anonymous at 23,Dec,09 02:14

Wow, you're friends suck. Those aren't friends at all, they're just mooches that can't do things themselves so they need you to do it. I bet if you didn't talk to that friend for a month, she'd be kinda lost. So try it see what happens. And next time your friend asks you for something speak your mind. Tell her that you've been sick for months and she should get off her lazy ass n do something for you, and if she doesn't, never talk to her again cuz if she sticks around for life she'll probably be 40 years old living on your couch.

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