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Posted by Bee at August 27, 2010
Tags: 2010 August  Religion

I'm torn between wanting to be a religious or an everyday married person with kids. My time is running out as I get older. I know it doesn't sound too bad but it is. I have an amazing ability to see the pain in other people especially married people or people with children or sexually active people. I can appreciate the horror of the situation, so if I choose marriage and kids and I encounter sadness and hardship and grief, I will only have myself to blame because I knew all along that it would be. On the other hand I cannot be smug about the fact that I am celebate. The dawning truth is that one day sooner or later I will dry up, my biological clock will wither and I will face the reality that I will never have children in this world. I will never know intimacy with one of the many potential spouses I have met on my journey. There are times when I seriously ask God why I was ever conceived.


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By anonymous at 09,Sep,10 22:18

what if god doesnt want ppl to have religions and follow him what if god made us in his own image so we could make our own decisions and grow up? religion is the worst man made invention. That said, if you are able to afford a kid(food,house,school, love etc) go for it, if not forget it youll just ruin a life, thats coming from a 10 year old, jesus christ why adults are such pussies these days?

By anonymous at 20,Dec,10 20:55

You are to be admired for your allegiance to God for not having open sexual relationships. You may not realize it, but your sacrifice, as well as the sacrifices of others bring grace and mercy to this world through Jesus Christ. I cannot help but to be saddened by the previous comment that religion is an invention of man. Praise and worship to God are essential, and are demanded by Him. You are fulfilling the will of the Father by living according to the teachings of the Son. I truly wish happiness for you, you are a thoughtful and caring person created in the image and likeness of God.

By anonymous at 28,Mar,11 15:27

I'm in a similar situation. Did think of giving up my virginity once, glad I didn't (not going to go into any detail) definitely going to wait until I've been tied the knot.

By anonymous at 14,Feb,12 03:10

Im gonna tell u the same thing I tell my kids. IF u want to get married, find someone who truly loves GOD, who puts GODs will first, dont bring another life n2 this wicked system. Find a unwanted baby, save him/her, there r alot of unwanted babies n this world. Keep ur thoughts n prayer, and b careful what ur heart thinks.

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