i used to live in a small town and there was a girl i was fucking crazy about and still am, i've tried not thinking about her but i can't it's insane, i used to see her all the time every weekend almost, my mum decided she wanted to move to brisbane and so we did, i never see her anymore i've seen her twice this year and those 2 times have been the happiest i've been all year, but that isn't the only thing, i used to have a shitload of friends where i used to live as well now i sit in a room most days bored as fuck on the computer, when i think about how awesome my life used to be and how fucking shit it is now it makes me feel suicidle i wanted to send this in and see if anyone can give me some advice, thank you | |
You could maybe try and get involved in some group or something that you're interested in, like sport, or art or computers or even church if that's your thing, but whatever you're interested in (there's got to be something!)... these kind of groups are where you can meet friends, and usually if you're friendly, even if you're shy, you'll make at least some friends. (trust me, even if you don't feel like going at the start or you're nervous, once you start having a good time you'll be glad) Obviously, these don't replace old friends, but it can make you feel less lonely and feel like you have a place here too.
And if you're feeling this bad, I know everyone says it and it's like yeah right, but you could talk to a counsellor - seriously, because they really can help you, just to feel like you're not alone.
I assume you're in Brisbane, Australia?
Depending on your age, you can call Kid's Help Line (1800 55 1800) which doesn't show up on your phone bill, or Lifeline (13 11 14) both are available 24 hours/day. Also, you can just google counselling in brisbane - there's tons. And if you're at school, usually they have school counsellors too. I know I've said it before, but these people really can help you, and no problem is too little, or too silly.
I'm actually in brisbane too, so just think, if a complete random out there like me cares enough to try and help you, just imagine how many other people out there would feel the same - so you're definitely not alone.
I hope I've been able to help a little, sorry it's so long! Good luck with everything, I really hope it works out for you :)
Either that or i will just move elsewhere in the world. Life is too short to stay in a single city. Keep moving.
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