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Hardworking, Honest, Did all the right things... still sucks

Posted by Lala at September 25, 2009
Tags: General  Money  September 2009  Society

College graduate, Married to a Dr. with tons of student loans and debt to get through school. Parents not rich so had to make our way. Not a druggie or alchy. I've always worked my butt off, never counted on the government or others tax dollars for help. Our business is slow, so not much money, can barely pay bills much less make a dent in the debt. Found out we were pregnant after putting it off for 6 years to get educated. I'm 31 so not old yet. Had to pay the entire things myself... no medicaid for me. Only to have miscarried in week 12. So the silver lining is I don't have to pay the entire $15000. I hate everyone who never works and gets to have the things they want: children, vacations, boats, etc... Sometimes i think i should have just been an idiot dropout with no education and no skills and too lazy to get a job. I'd probably have a hell of a lot more than I do now. LIFE SUCKS!!!


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By anonymous at 28,Sep,09 13:15

Lala I hear your pain...I'm in a similar situation and you are right we probably would have a whole hell of a lot more if we were just dropouts with no desire to work, I just got fired from my job becuase they were harrassing me and found out that I was collecting necessary evidence to protect myself and get out of a bad sitution, now I even have to fight to get my unemployment....the worst part is that people just do not understand the pain and frustration that we feel. My husband and I are constantly working just so that we can make it by and then there are people like my brother-in-law who have a house handed to them on a silver platter, then two restaurants and prior to all this was a teenage father, then a few years later got another girl pregnant and didn't marry the mother and was a drug addict and an alchy and best of all his mother pays his child support and protected his sorry ass from his father, so that his father would not disown him.

By anonymous at 20,Mar,10 02:35

Listen, I understand what you are saying, I have a college degree,no loans, decided not to "follow the Jones" paid my bills instead. I don't receive anything from the GOVT. either. When you don't have kids,so call middle income, you get nonthing from uncle sam. What I would like to say to you is that you and your spouse need to ake one day at a time. Your income will improve, get with your creditors about your bills and come up with a plan. Do you think that your issue is that you feel that you should be further along based on AMERICA'S description of upper middle class, because that is what you and your spous are or will become. Check to see if part of your school loans can be written off, I think teachers and social workers can have some of their loans forgiven. I am sorry for your loss, maybe when you are not stressed or over whelmed with bills and debts, you and your spouse can try again. What I would like to say is that this situation is tough for both of you,so the two of you will need to confront this together. Keep away from alcohol, RX drugs, and anything that can distract the two of you. Focus on this situation and come up with a plan. I have taught budgeting and I have helped people one on one. By no means am I an expert, but I do believe in meeting my needs and putting my wants on hold until my debts are under control. Not necessarly completley paid off but under control. Base on your education and your husband's career, you may never qualify for Pubils assistance benefits therefore, you have to accpet that and move on with the life that you chose. I really see hope and prosperity in your case. Just live within your means and save for a rainy day.

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