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Posted by anonymous at May 1, 2012
Tags: 2012 May  Relationship

Life surely does suck. I transferred to another state with my employer. My wife promised to follow me and even started packing things up. House wouldn't sell, so she refuses to leave now. It has been 3 years now. I live 8 hours away from my home, my wife, my 2 kids.....one 12 and the other 15. When I left, they were 9 and 12. I have missed everything in their lives the last three years. 90% of of my pay goes back home. I work 50 hours a week and get 10% of the pay. I'm pretty sure the wife is happy because she gets to stay there, with the kids, with the money, with her part time shitty paying job, summers off, and her best friend which I now believe she loves more than me. She tells me I need to sacrifice for the good of the family. She has turned out to be the most selfish person I know, something she never was before. I love her so much. I am about to lose everything I cherish because she refuses to relocate. I won't divorce because I love her, and don't want the kids to suffer and our marriage was perfect until this happened. I cannot take it anymore, I cannot do it anymore. That's why my life sucks. Four years to retirement, but I can't do it anymore.


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By anonymous at 02,May,12 09:42

Buddy im in exactly the same position. My husband is on the opposite side of the world with work. We stayed to put my girl thru the end of school, Absolutely the right thing for her, shes thriving . Thru circumstance and bad luck and god knows, this time apart is now more than a year and a half. The tragedy here is my son, started at 14 and a half is now sixteen. Its too long for the kids to be apart from u , believe me they are already suffering even if they dont show it. I dont know where u live, but u dont have to sell , lease ur house out . Your family , kids need you, get time off and go home, with the clear intention of sorting it out once and for all. we do the same at the moment with money , its insane, it defeats the purpose of doing it. Talk to ur boss too. How does she think she can stay in the house if u divorce anyway? her life will then HAVE to change. Go home , get serious about fixing it now, one way or another , for the sake of ur kids, good luck , u gotta tough road . Me too.


By anonymous at 02,May,12 19:37

Check yourself into a state mental hospital. They are waiting for you.


By anonymous at 03,May,12 00:41

Move back. Do whatever it takes but move back. You have to be with your family


By anonymous at 03,May,12 02:54

Dude, leave her for good but before you do get her on recording(s) stating that you need to sacrifice, etc. I'm sure she's not making it sound very welcoming at home from the tone of what you wrote. I have been in a similar situation, it won't change - believe me. You have to man up and cut the ties, she's not worth it. If she truly cared she would have found a way to come to you even if it meant downsizing until your house finally sold which it would eventually. She's fucked up and selfishness never goes away, I hate to say it.


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