I'm a 21 years old young woman, a student, obese and I feel very lonely. I know I have ''a whole life ahead of me'', but I feel lonely. I never really had any relationship with a man before. Not even a decent friendship, let alone a serious one. I long for a serious relationship, but I haven't met anybody yet. I've never fallen in love before. Yes, I felt butterflies when there was a ''at first glance potential'' person, but it never was possible afterwards. (With potential I mean age and vibe that might work, just less than basic)
The problem is, because I never had any looks, talks with someone potential as a partner (don't get me started on lusty looks from married 50+ year old men), I start feeling there is something wrong with me. I feel so much more ugly, I feel so much more stupid, just so much less attractive. All my friends have had or are in a relationship, yet I haven't at all and since men is all they can talk about, it hurts a lot. I'm dieting to get healthier, but I wasn't always this obese.
This is definitely not the saddest story, It's not even near the end of the world problem, but it still sucks. It still affects me, I'm still getting depressed at times. It affects my grades and future career quite negatively. Some advice to deal with it would be nice, Thanx.
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Best wishes
Good luck
Don't hide your own insecuries by putting others down.
just want to let you know not all guys like super model type.
in my case, I like girls physically on the plump side.
they don't turn me on otherwise.
I'm not ugly and quite fit.
what I'm trying to say is please keep trying.
go out more, enjoy life, be confident. Let your personality shines through.
there is a match for everyone in this world. You just haven't met him yet.
but i don't really want a relationship,good luck
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