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Posted by No realfriends at April 18, 2012
Tags: 2012 April  Loneliness

Hello,
I am a 24 year old girl african girl, i will describe myself as tall slender beautiful and averagely smart. My main problem is that i have NO friends, my whole life i have never had a best friend, i have had a friend who i call a best friend but he was a guy in high school with a crush on me, we got over this and became friends but we have never been close. I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH MEN , every guy i have date has been head over heals and instantly wants to live with me for years.. i have only lived with or dated Caucasian men, one for 2 years and now this guy for the past year and a half, he is gorgeous with beautiful blue eyes tall, and a scorpio (hot sex) but he has lost ALL his hair at 24 and that bothers me a lot! i love HAIR on a man. I love this guy he is perfect in every other way except his hair! it hurts me because i feel i am being too artificial! Back to my main problem, i went to college in a graphic design school which cost me almost 100 k in student loans i could not pay it because the recession hit and i could not find a job so my credit score is now 510 :(. I finALLY recovered from That and realized that my passion in life is working with special needs children and i am acquiring my masters in that right now i will be done next year ans finally start making the money i deserve 60k a year but i just hate life because i do not have anyone to call when things get bad except my parents (who love and support me have been married for 25 years) my brother, my boyfriend or this one girlfriend who i dont really have a connection with. I WANT TO BE THE GIRL WITH LOTS OF FRIENDS! and i am scared i will be the girl with no bridesmaid at her wedding! it hurts i just want to make girlfriends but i dont know how or whats wrong with me, i am starting to feel like a looser i am turning 25 in two weeks and still never had a girl best friend! i am a teachers aide right now but i lie and tell everyone i am teacher, i just can not wait to be a teacher making 60 k so i can finally afford all the things i want. funny thing is i would make a GREAT teacher, i have tried so hard since graduating college to make more money then 30 k a year in the DC area. My boyfriend is not a DC native and he also make 30 k a year in this are we are considered poor, paycheck to paycheck. WHEN WILL ALL THIS CHANGE, i just want a best friend, i was also not born here i cam here when i was about 12. for the last year i have has two jobs while pursuing my masters this stres shas caused me to ruin my beautiful skin with acne. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

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By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 00:13

Maybe no one wants to be your friend because you are clearly a whiney ass bitch.
By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 18:00

This is Nofriends replying, it's easy to assume that i am a whiny ass whaterver you called me because you do not understand that everyone wants to initially be my friend, but i have NEVER had a real friend to call when i feel down. i have NEVER had a best friend my whole life, i was always shy nervous and i moved to so many countries during my childhood i missed out on sleep overs, and basically learning how to make friends, i am not mad at your comment, everyone around me thinks my life is perfect too.. so but no one really knows


By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 02:07

I'm whit, wanna fuck
By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 18:01

no, i am not really into girls but thanks for the offer :)


By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 03:20

what the HELL are u complaining about you whiny ass b*tch??? oh youre pretty and date hot guys??? im pretty and can't even meet a hot guy...so shut the fuk up you stupid ungrateful fuking whore...i hope you get herpes and die...you deserve it wench...you have no real problems youre just a spoiled selfish bitch who likes to whine about nothing...get a life cunt
By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 18:05

before you go assuming that i have no real problems, consider that i was born in liberia(look it up) during a civil war and in the process had missiles flying over my head and knifes to my throat when i was only 8. consider that my childhood was robbed by ignorant politicians who destroyed the place i was born so i had to live in several different countries before coming here to america. consider that by the time i came here i was twelve and my friend making skills and childhood had already been damaged by stress and moving that i do not really know how to be someone's friend without it being awkward. consider that all i really want is a great social life.. and i have NEVER had it . thanks
By anonymous at 19,Apr,12 04:07

that doesnt matter-- youre coming on here bitching about stupid shit like your BF going bald and who knows what...if you were a child living in africa or living in a war stricken place thats a different situation...youre NOT...you come here bragging like a pompous ass about being pretty and having a boyfriend and men falling in love with you...that is so fucking lame...and you have no friends...really?? you claim you've never had a support system but you claim you had it in africa....so what the fuck is the TRUTH in your story??? youre just LONELY in america right now because you have no friends right now...BIG DEAL??? you have a BOYFRIEND and there are people who have no friends and NO boyfriend...dont come here saying you've never had friends when you clearly state below you used to be happy when you HAD friends in africa...but now you don't...gee welcoem to moving to another COUNTRY sometimes its not that easy to make friends ina different place...again...stop whinign about stupid shit... get some real problems then whine about them...and women from africa can be the biggest bitches in the world.. i work with some and they are really bitchy whiny mean people...and they feel the world owes them...wonder why america lets foreigners who treat people like shit even come to this place...
By anonymous at 23,Apr,12 01:49

I agree! You don't start off a story of depression saying that you're talk and pretty. Omg my boyfriend is bald, really no wonder you have no friend I would kill me myself listening to you butch about how pretty u are all day.


By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 03:22

you cant make any friends because you're a stuck up bitch basically... who is crying for friends...get some help and oh youre living with your boyfriend an you idiots cant' make ends meet...welcome to the majority of people's lives...get some real problems when come back and whine...i hate whiny ungrateful losers like you who just like to whine about nothing...go get a skin disease then come back and bitch about something...seriously idiot loser....and what do you need to do-- get an attitude change....and get some help
By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 18:07

The problem is not that i can not make any friends.. because i have a lot of acquaintances the problem is that i have never shared a close relationship to someone platonic when they will call and check up on me and basically be there for me. i am not upset about not making ends meet, that is not permanent. what hurts my soul is that i feel unlovable by people who do not want a sexual relationship from me. - Nofriends


By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 03:25

I'm gonna agree with anonymous - If you're a super hot black chick and your biggest problems are not esrning enough cash and also have a thing about bald dudes, well - call me shallow and maybe my life sucks too - or look at all the goddamn poor people in africa who've been dealt a shit sandwich from day one and tell me again how badly you're off. Pfaugh!
By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 18:16

I was once one of those Goddamn poor people in Africa, for about a year of my life and its really not as bad as you Americans like to think of it, poor people can be happy, Africa is a very family oriented place, i remember being happy even when i was poor and rich in africa. Once you have a support system, greta family and friends the miniscule things in life like wanting so bad to drink a coke or dying for some chocolate since you haven't had some in years is really irrelevant. i have lived several lives being a really poor african child, being a rich african child, being a middle class immigrant in american, being a middle class american citizen, i was the happiest when i had tons of friends that loved me back in africa! but thanks for your insight - Nofriends
By anonymous at 19,Apr,12 04:08

ok so you HAVE had friends before though you state you haven't...so youre lying...you just dont have MANY close friends in america....wow really..boohoo??? and you have acquaintances....youre just an ungrateful spoiled bitch...get a life!!


By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 05:48

What a fucking moronic bitchass..I can tell that you're making things up about being hot and slender because i know you're one fat stinky land whale who have silly retarded fantasy of having a great boyfriend when in reality you have none! You thundercunt need to get a life. I hate you!
By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 18:11

Don't hate me, i am pretty slender i am always asked if i model.. but so what that is not what i pride on, i do have a boyfriend awesome.. great. i am a really good person, i work with intellectual disabled people because i love to (not because it sounds good) i do not need to prove anything to you but for courtesy sake i can send you my face-book so you can see what i look like. I really just posted this because i was down and i never tell anyone this i thought this would be a great way to express the black hole in me, but you all are so mean, i guess when you are on this site, life sucks and you are not going to be the nicest most understanding person.. NoFriends
By anonymous at 19,Apr,12 00:15

prove yourself then.
By anonymous at 19,Apr,12 04:57 Fold Up

it's clearly you're a fucken liar who daydreams a lot. Wake up you stinky bitch and get help.


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By anonymous at 18,Apr,12 22:44

Alot of ppl on the comments above are kinda harsh but think about what your saying "ruining ur beautiful skin with acne, I dnt like my boyfriend bald." like ur gonna come on this website with ppl with a bunch of real problems and ur gonna tell us that that's a problem that ur having? I think you've been living a princess life partially ur parents fault. When u decide to come off your throne maybe youll make some friends, cause that's ur main issue.


By anonymous at 19,Apr,12 09:56

I think the problem here is your outlook on life. You see the glass half full instead of simply being content. You of all people should be since you said you came from a war torn Africa and experienced the violence yourself.

Also, you should remove the word "deserve" from your vocabulary and replace it with the word "earn."
By anonymous at 21,Apr,12 03:03

Don't be so nice please, this girl is a retard


By anonymous at 20,Apr,12 16:57

I am horrified by the appalling replies you have received. And the grace with which you responded was astounding.
You could write a book of your life story. It sounds fascinating. I'd like to read it. I'm sorry you feel friendless, maybe you are just unusual that's why it's hard to find soul mates. I mean unique. So just focus on your creativity and friends will come one day.
By anonymous at 21,Apr,12 03:14

Don't be so nice please, this girl is a retard


By anonymous at 21,Apr,12 03:00

You CUNT ASS BITCH, I'm an african girl too, I'm about your age. I live in the french part of Canada. I've struggled, I have lost both my parents and two of my brothers. But I try to carry on without any support. I live with courtesy, compassion and I know some people have it even worst than me.
I've learned 3 languages + english, I'm finishing a masters degree and I'll be working for the UN by next year helping those who suffer. TO ME, YOU ARE A FUCKING DISGRACE, PEOPLE LIKE YOU MAKE ME ASHAMED OF AFRICA. I would punch you the face if I were next to you, and someone will one day hurt you if you go on being and ignorant bitch, a superficial cunt who annoys people about acne. YOu don't deserve shit, specially not friends. And you will NEVER have any friends EVER. And why do you feel the need to share with everyone that you only date white guys, what is that all about you STUPID WHORE? Why do you say that ?! You're such a retard, I don't know if I have to laugh or punch walls but you make me ashamed and yeah, I'll say it again YOU'LL NEVER HAVE ANY FRIENDS


By anonymous at 22,Apr,12 14:44

For those who commented on this post. You guys are no better by saying negative words. You guys may say, "they're only words." Words do hurt. How would it feel to be kicked when you're already down? Not so wonderful would it? Now Norealfriends, self evaluate your life. Don't sit down and jot down how you want to be the girl with lots of friends, but instead get up and find friends! As for your financial situation... Times are tough you'll just have to roll with the punches!


By anonymous at 22,Apr,12 23:03

Im horrified by the vile comments you have received. You seem so desperate for any kind of contact that you will even reply to them in a polite way. Im going to offer you some real advice and I hope you take it.
Please ignore all the spiteful abusive comments and dont reply to them.
Your self esteem is extremely low and you try to big yurself up by saying how pretty you are etc. This will not make you any real friends. People respond to vulnerability and modesty. It doesnt matter how pretty you are, your words about baldness show that you are shallow.
This is a huge turn off for people. You are making a huge mistake as you are only showing the unpleasant side of yourself. If there is another side to you then let it show.
Looks and money are all you seem to value and that is what you will sow in return. If you really want to make friends you must change your views and develop some humility. Think about other people and do good things for them, not just for yourself.
If you really are as shallow and self deserving as you make yourself out to be then I despair for your future.
On the other hand if you have the will to change your attitude then you will find people will give you a second chance.
Remember this quote. "People are beautiful because we love them, we do not love them because they are beautiful".


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