Hi, this does not really suck in comparison to other problems mentioned in this site... i just wanted an opinion.
Am i normal? I hate the thought of having a baby and this makes me somehow sad (i'm contradicting my self but i have very mixed feelings about this). I do NOT hate older children, but i find babies disgusting, a weight, and stupid. When i see one, especially when it is crying, my first instinct is to run away.
Very often i also have bad thoughts.. like for example i imagine that if my baby were crying like that i'd smash it on the floor or something.
My mother was aggressive, very aggressive.. and she used to hurt me physically and psychologically. I am afraid that i'm developing into a monster like she was.
When i am angry i tend to hit stuff.. i don't want to break anything but sometimes it happens and very often i hurt myself by punching stuff. Today i punched a table and now my hand is blue.
Anyway, i also hate the idea of change, i do not like the idea of having a baby crying around the house, but i get lots of pressure from my family with comments like "get pregnant at last".
I can imagine myself as a happy mother of someone who already is 5-6 years old and is a little bit more independent, goes to school and does not need ass cleaning all the time anymore. But i do not like the idea of being weak for years and years by having a baby. I will be totally dependent on my husband and i will not be able to work as i would like, travel around etc..
For my husband all seems so easy, but he can have his career, he can travel thanks to his job, while i have dedicated all my life to studying, i have many diplomas, and now just because i got married and i am 31, nobody wants to hire me because they all think i'll soon have a child.
I studied and i worked really hard, and the MOMENT i got married my company FIRED me..i am searching for a job and cannot find anything.
If i have a baby i will have to do everything for it. my husband already declared he won't lift a finger to help feeding or changing diapers. I will be 24h per day taking care of some yelling creature instead of working & having a nice time in the office (i always was very happy in every job i had).
Having a baby will mean taking my education and throwing it down the toilet.
Life for women sucks, we are not allowed to have family & career together.. while men have it easy.. they get hired whenever they want, they even get more money when they have kids, and they get to travel and they get all the best positions.
If i have a baby i will be a weak housewife who has to ask her husband for every cent she needs to go shopping.
I want my own life, my own money, a career and everybody to stop pushing me about the baby thing. | |
its not like ancient times.. you can have a sex change... but i guess you won't now that you are already over 30..
if you dont want a kid then don't.. no one is forcing you..
hell, you dont even have to get married in this day and age
you can also be a lesbian
so stfu and get on with your pathetic excuse of a life...
Babies are an 18 year commitment (minimum)of love, caring and patience. My parents were both severely neurotic and should not have made babies, but I somehow survived with my mental health somewhat intact. Unfortunately, I hate females due to my psycho grandmother, mother and mean-spirited sister. More unfortunately, I am straight and not gay. Many kind and friendly hookers have made a lot of money from me for their services. Many strippers have also made money off of me.
My honest opinion is that education for women is pointless.
If you have a son, he will grow up hating you and hating women.
If you do not like my opinion, tell my psycho mother who passed away a few years ago. I celebrated my mother's death by playing the song from the Wizard of Oz, "Ding Dong the Witch is Dead".
yeah well, i think it would be egoistic to have a kid in my case, because despite putting someone into this world who never asked to be born (and who'll throw this into my face on every possible occasion), I'll mp treat it badly and it will turn out in the best case disturbed.
Apart from this, looking at how life is nowadays, what's the point in having a child at all...
They call me an egoist, but i think those who HAVE kids are egoists, they just want someone to take care of them when they'll be old. They are afraid not to be accepted by society and end up having kids just to show off.
With so many people on the planet (and the pope telling not to use condoms), with all the damages we caused to this planet, well, things cannot get better, and i don't want any child having to face the future.
you brought that kid to world
its your problem
nobody is forcing you to have a baby
some people want kids but they cant get pregnant
so give your baby to some one
or go to hell and shut the fuck up
New Comment