I'm Nina, I'm 15 and I hate my home life so much.I am 1 of 6 kids, me being the baby and the oldist being 26, 4 boys and 2 girls.we have all got Dyslexia but in diffrent ways mine being the strongest out of us all :( I go too school 33 miles away from my home, just on the out side of essex.I love my school sooo much, I am house captin and student voice, and hopfuly going to try and be head girl.I have one AMAZING boyfriend and he respects me like I'm a piece of gold we have been together for 9 months now and I love him to bits, we are going to italy in the summer with his family :D, I am studding Food at school and I love doing it, but as soon as I get in from a long day at school I get picked up at 7.20 get to school for 8.30 finish school at 3.30 andget home at 4.35. A long Day for a 15 year old, every sunday I get up at 7am and peel all the vegetables for sunday roast I cook all day long cakes, cookies, beckwell tarts, hot cross buns, mades of honer, puff pasty started and so many more I cook for 8 or more in one sitting and I don't even get thanked,I do cook dinner through ot the week aswell, I have asked for one weekend with my boyfriend just to cuddle up to him on the sofa and fall asleep in his arms, but No my mum and dad won't let me, they don't have a reason for not letting me go, its like they don't respect me for what I do for them :'( I just want one weekend off, that's all I ask! Why is it so hard? :'( | |
Muhammed PBUH said that if you want to know what Allah thinks of you find out what you think of Him. The feelings are always mutual.
If you love Allah and give him importance in your life you should know that He loves you and you have some importance in the heaven.
you're right, life doesn't seem fair. And you're finding out at a tender age- guess what: IT ISN'T!!!!
It's not going to always work out the way you want. Especially at 15. I know this probably sounds lame, but have you ever had a family meeting? You know, where everyone is around at the same time- For instance: The family dinner on Sunday-
A discussion in which everyone is involved- your parents and siblings, and seriously have a heart to heart. Everyone should have a chance to voice their opinion and vent. Hopefully, if anything, at least the tension of holding everything inside could be resolved...
Your parents may not understand or may not be aware that just a simple "Thank You" from everyone on Sunday would make you feel- well, all warm and fuzzy inside...
Be patient. You will only be 15 once. Savor your childhood and don't grow up too fast-
Because before you know it, you're old and gray and going- gosh darn it, I remember when I was 15- Life Was GOOD! I had no bills, no debt, and no stress!
Good luck kid-
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