This sound so odd,but I was happy to find this online,I moved to uk 2002 from african where I was born,to find a better life, but not knowing the system well,I think with a 6month visa I could work go to school and have a good life,I came in age of 21, now am 30.I ll be 10yrs in july, is so sad and alone have not gone back to my home town,so I can eat nd pay bill and send money back home I worked as a waiters in a restaurant,cash in hand and ?3.20. some1 advice me about charm marriage which I pay about ?5000,just to have my own stay in the UK but did not work out,then I relocate away from london,so I can start a new life I work with my aunties details,I use her Birth cerf and NI not long my BF came over from african in 2005, we have been together..but living in the UK as illegal Immigrant,we have to kids now, but we are struggling No Money,Relationship Problems so bad cos have stop working and he had a stroke 2yrs ago,He said he couldn't work with someone's detail becuse he does not want immigration to caught him and deport him because he is scared,But if I go and work and get pay we spend the money together we are going to be homeless in the next 20days,Reason be is because my sister's council house we live in since 2006 we never pay gas or light bill,how the suppliers has contact housing we ll be out soon...Even my family are tired of my husband not trying to work and I don't want to be single mom no one as got job life is so difficult now,I'm not entitle to benefit, we only leave on the children benefit for now,I can't say that I lived a horrible life,also families have been supportive,but no one can pay my bills cos they have theirs to pay for,but 1 thing I still believe is 'God ll do it'.....God have been faithful...But I need him Most now,going back to african is not a good thing for me and the kids,because I don't have much..Also my hubby i is from a poor home..Y do I hv to marry him then? I'm so confuse right now.. | |
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