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It's Just not fair

Posted by anonymous at March 9, 2012
Tags: Attitude  2012 March

Other people on here have really serious problems I know, but I cant help feeling desolate and hopeless.

A little background. I am a 25 year old guy still in my senior year of college, and I am badly in love. I have no way around it. I am head over heels for this girl. We are in college together, she is 21 and finishing up her senior year (on time, unlike me because I'm an idiot). We have classes and do a lot of student clubs together, and all I want is to make her happy.
We are great friends, and I can tell she really cares about me as a person, and she is just such a great girl. The problem? She's been with her boyfriend for 3 years, and I don't think he's going anywhere.

He is 23 and graduated on time from our school last May, unlike me. Also unlike me, he has a great job, is making a lot of money, and lives in a nice apartment in New York City, 2 hours from our school. I have no idea what I'm going to do when I graduate. I am 5'11'' and 245 lbs with nothing special to look at, and he is 6'2'' and couldn't be an ounce over 205 lbs. How can I compete?? He's really outgoing too and I've always been kind of shy.

Once we graduate in May, she is moving to NYC to be with him (also where her family is), and I am absolutely devastated, because I'll be stuck here. I thought this 1 year that they would be long distance would give me a chance to win her over, but they're like the PERFECT FUCKING COUPLE!! It is the worst feeling in the world to hear her talk about him, because she's really crazy about him.

I feel like an asshole for hating him as much as I do, because he's actually a really nice guy. Always been nice to me when I've met him, bought me drinks, and he treats her like a queen. But I don't care. I wish he was gone.

In May she moves to NYC, and then i'll lose her forever....what should I do? Do I tell her how I feel? I have to try and get her to give me a chance...I don't know what to do with myself. I feel empty


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By anonymous at 13,Mar,12 00:44

Honestly dude, stop being a little bitch. If you cared at all about her happiness you wouldn't even bother, because this boyfriend of hers can clearly provide more for her than you can. It sucks that the guys like that always get the girls, but maybe he's onto something. Lose a little weight bro and jump back into it. Plenty of fish in the sea. Gve up on this girl, there i little chance she is leaving him for you.


By anonymous at 13,Mar,12 03:20

If you really care about her, you would let her go. Enjoy and cherish the time you've been together. Be a good guy. It seems her boyfriend cares about her and that's rare. I know, it's tough. I am in a similar situation. I'm in love with a friend's wife. She's amazing and has every quality I want in a woman. After loosing my wife to a divorce, she's everything. I told her how I feel and she knows it. She won't leave her husband because of their two kids. They are in a loveless marriage. So what to do? I told her maybe in this life we can't be together, maybe in the next life. When I am in heaven I will save a seat for her. You never know, you might get your chance. Just be a good guy. it's hard, but i think that you are one.


By anonymous at 14,Mar,12 14:44

there is no such thing as love except between a parent and offspring, so stop looking for it and letting it run your life, hookers are a good thing


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