LIFE SUCKS

it sounds like you've been wanting to meet someone that is just like you,all the same interests socially,like the same music,movies,philosophy,lifestyle,pass time interests,feelings about life,love and beyond,etc and maybe that person hasn't come along yet..but you're not willing to bend and conform to being with someone not so much like you.guess what..you shouldn't have to.in reality,the person you spend the rest of your life with and share with 24/7 should be as much like you as possible!the more UNlike you they are,the less you'll get along.a lot of people will tell you stupid things like you need to find someone who has only a few things in common with you or something just as irrational like,opposites attract/.i find that i'm a bit more different than others my age and a bit different all the way around i guess. so i keep holding out for someone like me..the same interests..not a clone,but definitely in to the same music genre,movies and pass time interests/what you like to do in your pass time is important to your well being and happiness.never cut down on the time you spend doing those things merely to satisfy someone else by 'conforming' a large percentage of your time to what they do if it's not 'you'/you'll find someone.i made the mistake of compromising and got connected for a(very short) while with someone by conforming and doing mostly what they wanted to do all the time and hoping i'd find myself being attracted to their interests and lifestyle and etc..girl,that ain't the way to go about it!!you'll wind up sacrificing your good times and fall into the hole of always feeling that you ought to conform to their way of 'things'.you'll wind up hating that person AND yourself and doing less of what you want to do and wanting to tell that person a hefty goodbye sooner than later./never let ANYone tell you that you need to compromise to the point that you're with someone that can't be your best friend!!cause who'mever you become attached to,you'll want them to be your best friend.best friends and soul mates click.a healthy and happy relationship isn't formed by 'conforming' to another's interests and lifestyle.it's formed by choosing someone that is like you to begin with./that's the glue!i'm a guy,but the same is true of a woman..everybody!!i had a best friend a while back (male cousin) that i'd known for over 20 years.we not only liked doing the same things ,same interests(movies,music,pass time stuff)but he enjoyed doing other things as well that added to the stuff we both had in common.but they weren't major to the point of hindring our friendship.i also had things in my life i liked doing that he didn't care so much for.but very minor things that i did when he wasn't around me.little things.my point is that you'll find someone.his and my differences were mostly regarding certain songs or movies he liked and i didn't and vice versa.but whether it's a friendship like his and mine or an intimate relationship,it's wise to have 90% or more of both of your likes and dislikes in common with one another.it's not impossible trust me.many today will argue and say i'm wrong,but i'm not.that cousin relocated a few years ago and i long now for either another best friend like him in my life or a girlfriend with as much in common as he and i had.he and i used to double date even.and i even dated two of the same girls he dated.he and i had quite a friendship.20 plus years / i'll probably never find a best friend like him again because of the many years it took to form that bond.don't give up on waiting for a guy that's like you.it will happen.just like i'll meet a girl that's enough like me/.trust me!

Are you fucking kidding me? Someone ought to smack you in the face: why don't you read some of the other posts on here. You're bitching that you've been single for almost a year and you may end up alone? I spend years between relationships--and maybe most of these people marry the next person they meet because you're a shitty girlfriend. Maybe you need to work on changing yourself and stop being such a pathetic pity case: NO ONE HERE HAS ANY SYMPATHY FOR YOU! You're problems are trivial, and you need to get over that. No one is perfect and there is no perfect person for anyone--find someone who cares about you and can put up with you on a daily basis. Don't post here again: you don't know REAL problems.

I can relate. My last five relationships they married the person after me. I am 32 single and feel men only want me for one thing. Once I stopped giving it out boom nothing. I am broke I work but it isn't enough. I have put on a ton of weight. I work with kids and love them it makes me sad I may never be a mum. So it starts today. Join me! I'm going for a bike ride. Looking for a new job and reaching out to friends to set me up. Only you can change the suck. If I end up alone so be it. I'm sick of worry. Woe is me is not going to get me what I want and it won't get that for you. I know it's hard all my friends are married getting married or have kids. It is my time to shine.

Theres a game called world of warcraft, it helps people like you :)