I was deeply in love with a girl. My family is open minded, and she was ready to do anything for me, so I thought it wont be a problem to marry her.
However, when i told my family about the girl, my mother was totally against her, because of her caste and colour, and to the utter surprise, my father instead of convincing my mother, took her favour and pressurized me to not to marry that girl.
I could have gone and married her, but as I am the only son to my parents, I had to live with them through out my life.
We continued without any commitments, which badly affected our trust and relationship.
Finally, I got engaged to other girl (arranged one, like in Indian Societies), I was seriously not happy with the arranged relationship. My courtship period was one year and through out the period I was also in touch with my girlfriend.
Now I am married, I really miss my girlfriend, I think she has got a new boyfriend, and my wife is not my kind of girl. Relationship with my wife are getting worst day by day (my wife does not know anything about my girlfriend).
My wife starts fighting on petty issues, and always behaves life a spy. I thought of ignoring her, whenever she will fight, but, all in vain, she starts crying when I ignore her. Few days back my parents saw her crying and I WAS THE VILLAIN.
Now, my girlfriend has moved on, she has new boyfriend, she does not want to be in touch with me anymore.
I have spoiled my life, me n my wife are not at all happy, and I miss my girlfriend alot... | |
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