My mom is really fucked up. She has been an alcoholic ever since I was born and well, my dad is a workaholic. But only because my mom is too fucking lazy to get a job. All she ever does is sit around the house all day, watch tv and sleep until noon. She usually "does" all the household chores, but lately she has been even lazier than usual. She does our laundry maybe once a month. She complains about every fucking little thing she has to do. She even said once: "Oh my god I have to fucking cook AGAIN? I just cooked last week!" I would do some of the chores myself but I don't fucking have the time. I'm at school 9 hours every fucking day, I study all the time and on the top of that I have ballet lessons almost every day.
I love my dad so much and he loves me but he is always at work because of mom. She spends all of our money shopping online for clothes or other stuff, and I never get anything. No, I'm not spoiled. I would gladly buy my own clothes and things if I had enough time to get a fucking job but I don't. All I'm asking for is some new, or at least clean clothes. If I ever want anything, new ballet slippers for example, I have to ask my dad because my mom would only tell me that "we don't have any money" and go shop online again.
At weekends she gets shitfaced and accuses me for the mistakes she has made in life. She once said she wished I was never born, and got really angry when I told her it was her own stupid fault for not using a condom. That's exactly how it works: she can call me anything she wants or say anything she wants, and I'm not supposed to say anything back. Usually I just try not to pay attention even though she drives me crazy. For example when we have guests coming over she tries to act all warm and fuzzy and like a proper mom should, she pats my back, does her ridiculous fake laugh and calls me "dear". It's disgusting because as soon as the guests leave, it's all about how much of a disappointment I am and how every bad thing that has ever happened to her is my fault. Again.
After I read this I realized how whiny I am. Oh well. | |
There is one thing I don't agree with here tho, and that is that your mother should be a slave to wiping the asses of people who are not babies.
My girls do their own laundry. I will not spend my life wiping up after anyone. I am a mother. Not a slave.
People here clean up after themselves. When we eat our dishes go right into the dishwasher. If I spent my life trying to clean up after everyone, I would have zero room for me.
I have watched too many women act like maids & slaves. Its just wrong.
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