I was born resenting my parents and other relatives. I hated my parents for letting all their children be subjected (including myself) to corporal punishment by my grand mother. Both my mom and dad are either clueless or too passive to protect us children from the cruelty of our grandmother and uncle.
Now just to escape the crazy home environment, as soon as i finished college i got married even to a girl that i don't really like. needless to say that marriage ended in divorce.
Seeking a better life i thought marrying again would be fun, so I married somebody I met in the internet. So far what happened next is worst than the first wife. Since I got remarried, I became delinquent in paying my credit cards, got charged with domestic violence, quit my job, became a stay at home dad, got high blood pressure, and became really really resentful of my current wife.
Now at age 39 i can feel I'm on my last chance of seeking joy and happiness.
Where can it be? Should I just divorce my 2nd wife and start anew?
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@~C: Relax! It seems you are very familiar with "virus & infection" I pity you. get some Meds.
The better way to find your next wife is to find a girl friend and stay with her for a year, than live with her for a few years and then you can tell wheter she is a marry-for-life material. Sure, let your kid to have a say in such matter when you three live together.
Dumb your current wife, of course.
Op I think you need to smart yourself instead of dumb your wife!
your advice is for him to discard people as if they were trash, to keep sifting through other people's lives and toying with their hearts until you find one who is "marry-for-life" material....when there is no commitment, do this not harden people's hearts......do they not fall away from believing in love?....
i guess, according to your advice, the poster should just forget about the VOWS he made before The Lord to honor his wife, love and hold her all the days that he shall live.....why do people so quickly forget the promises they make, and why is it so "socially accepted" to trash the promises made to God because you started not feeling as happy as people who live fictional perfect lives on TV.
and why do you in one breath say that the traditional notion of getting married doesn't really work, then give the man instructions on how to find another wife.
people who read and comment on this site, i have figured this kifi4 muthafucker out.....he is smart enough to diguise the horrible, life destroying suggestions he makes.....he hides poison in his comments, making them sound as if they are good advice.....beware, this is a very dangerous evil that many people will fall for.....i only ask that you keep this in mind when you read his future comments, and you will see for yourself.
once again kifi4, you FAIL
Still you are not leaving better advice to the poster as , and had I not replied your word picking comment on my comment, you would not had typed so much. That is your problem, not mine that you typed more just to criticise. Or may be you are someone who is using his name, but it does not matter.
Christian value? Not a single faith on earth has monopoly over God, if it existed. Vow in front of God? But The all knowing God knows that they don't get alone, and the god also created our great apes cousins under the primate family without marriage behaviour, unlike many of its flying creations. I truly think if there is a god, then he knows the poster and his wifes are mismatched by human errors. As it knows so, thus it can't be an offend to it that the poster wants to divorce her. Really? You do you think it is a productive comment to lecture the poster here while he is suffering? IS he going to take that shitty lecture?
The traditional notion of marriage I mentioned is the one without living together before wedding, and I expressed oppostion in my comment to the OP. Misunderstanding is your FAILURE ~CUNT as what I suggested can't be traditional marriage- - - have sex and live together before wedding is not a traditional marriage, but a rather modern marriage.
No, I am not a motherfucker, you are a motherfucker who FAIL to type the whole word for your faith and insist on using that non existing word to insult me, while you are the one who picked one me for dumb had been used as dump.
Did you just read that you ~cunt? You FAIL like a motherfucker with a ~CUNT handle on lifesucksbigtime.
I am not evil, in fact there are only few truly evil people out there who control others. My comment here are voluntarily selfless works that are creative, controvesaly practical, and non-religious. Also that My works are unlike those hypocrite who can't use certain words and want to go to heaven, a fictional place that is made up to scare young children. (not specificly you on this one) You fail ~CUNT, for having given me the opportunity to advertise for my-self with facts.
nice try from you to pin the "dump/dumb" comment on me, buy you are completely wrong......and once again, another FAIL.
If you squeeze: ~C -- you get: bad words such as---> no commitment, harden hearts, muthafucker, horrible, destroying, poison, dangerous evil, FAIL.
God Bless!
@ kifi4@hotmail.com: I appreciate your comments more.
Anyway....just for update, right now im still living with my 2nd ex-wife coz of the baby and she does not know how to drive.
Since i got a domestic violence record i can't get my security job back. Here I am siting in front of the PC and eating ice cream.
We are now starting to feel the poor financial management my 2nd ex-wife is doing. We are now 2 months late on our car. I told her NOT to buy a 2nd car since she's not even licensed yet (she too dumb to pass the written DMV exam). She is so stubborn.
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