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By kifi4@hotmail.com at 03,Feb,12 21:37

If he cheats, you can cheat too :) cheat on him with one of his friends perhaps. Consider the partner exchange option, is popular.

If you can't change a cheater, then be his cheater half. Is so good! You too get to sleep around and be happy parents infront of your kids!

By anonymous at 04,Feb,12 20:41

Stupid. How about instead of lowering yourself to "cheating" be HONEST and move on. If you can find another man to sleep with you can find another partner period, but its not about hopping from relationship to relationship, esp considering how doomed rebound relationships are. Don't copy bad behavior. You are worth more than that. There is alot of stupid advice everywhere especially here lately. Follow your heart. You are the only one who really knows what you need to do.
Also think about how your kids would feel. Some people get off on being sleazy other people have higher forms of pleasure. You never did anything wrong to deserve this. You are not the sick one. Don't continue a sick relationship. He will have to pay child support or he will rot in prison! Take him to court and get money to support your children. Its also not their fault either, they are innocent victims too.

By anonymous at 04,Feb,12 20:55

I agree, is the relationship worth saving? Don't do something out of spite as gratifying as it may seem.

By kifi4@hotmail.com at 05,Feb,12 11:22 Fold Up

Not stupid, but intelligent. I told her to work around her suffering by acting differently based on the partner she loves and have been married to for 20 years.

To tell someone who has expressed care over her cheating partner to seek for another relationship is not practical as she lacks the heart and will power to undergo so much change for just cheating alone and suspicion alone.

The partner exchange option is a mutually agreed option in a marriage. You are just someone who only sees your dislike and condemn others for what they are not with you selective memory and subjective mind that is not cpable of seeing the whole picture.

I take it that you have been reading my other comments and you are not happy about some of them. Think this way, people surely find my comments more useful than yours in most cases, and that is an assumption I find no shame for mistaking.

By anonymous at 03,Feb,12 23:12

Interesting that you picked Cat for a user name. You are certainly married to a tomcat! So who is he, Southern Distributor for his genetic pool? Are you in a country that doesn't have any birth control services available? All of you need to take up some other hobby besides reproduction. How is it that the girlfriend with 3 illegitimate children is not collecting child support? It doesn't appear that you can afford to stay in that situation. As long as you are married to that man, you will be legally held to his debts, don't you know that? If he craps out, creditors will come after YOU. It is high time you had a nice chat with a lawyer.

By anonymous at 04,Feb,12 04:04

i can understand that when most ppl read your story they cant help but to feel that your a idiot not to know that he was in your own words " living with someone" and also had 3 kids what was his excuses for not being home i dont get it that one person let alone 2 can be so stupid and you also haven't said you have left him yet oh my god calling doctor phill !!!!

By anonymous at 04,Feb,12 12:41

You people need to stop having so many babies. You are destroying the planet.

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