well. My ex husband and I had a baby on Christmas day of 1996, then we got married the 16th of may 1997, and I had a feeling he was having an affair with his boss, I confronted him and he denied it, said they were like brother and sister. Only to find out two months later when he didn't come home, that he had left our daughter and me for this other woman who was his boss, and he felt like a brother to. We got our divorce finalized July 1998, and they got married August 1998. they had two kids together and he never saw our daughter like he should have. She even told his parents when they came from jersey to visit every year that if they saw their first grand kid, my baby, that they would not be welcome in their house, and would not be allowed to see the two that they had, so the grandparents never paid any attention to our daughter for many years. Slowly but surely my ex husband quit paying any and all money due to me for medical bills, and child care that he was court ordered to pay, he currently owes me over $400.00 in medical bills, and over $2000.00 in child care. Then he quit paying the child support, and now he is currently about $10,000.00 behind, and the state of Florida refuses to do much to him. He has had his drivers license suspended 10 times, and he will walk into the support office and sign an IOU, and promise to make a payment and they give him back his license. We go to court for contempt and they tell him to pay an amount or he will go to jail, needless to say he has never gone to jail, his last payment was made Nov. 17th, 2011 for $20.00. He has only shown any interest on his daughter b-day and Christmas, three or four times, and that was when his current wife and he were separated and planning on a divorce. Once they got back together he stopped seeing her. She is now 15 years old, driving, and he wants his child support reduced...claims they have no money, no car, and no bank account. That is because they ran the business his wife owned into the ground, and lost it. She refuses to get a job, they are currently on welfare, and collect $600.00 a month in food stamps, but refuses to pay his child support. Just wondering how a man can NOT pay his court ordered child support, but still work under the table, and collect $600.00 a month in food stamps. My current husband supports my daughter with out any complaints, but her own father is a DEAD BEAT who does all he can to cheat the system and not pay his court ordered support. Any ideas on how to get this IDIOT to pay.......... our daughter who like I said is 15 is now understanding what he is, she is angry with him, and the one time he called her recently she asked him if she could come over for his thanksgiving visitation, and he TOLD her NO!!! So she has decided that he is not worth her time and she refuses to call him or talk to him if he calls. We sent out our Christmas cards and I asked her if she wanted to send one to him? She said NO..don't bother he isn't worth my time. I feel so sorry for my baby I wish her dad would suck it up and realize he is hurting her. | |
Your daughter needs a father's authority. If she seeks for her father, compensate for that by finding her your brother, cousin or someone you trust to help with that responsibility. YOU'LL MAKE IT. You'll be alright.
It seems as though you've already won, he and his wife are on welfare and are clearly not doing well financially. Your ex husband is a piece of garbage. Any man who abandons his seed for a woman isn't a man at all. He's a piece of scum. Pray for God to give you the strength to accept the things you cannot change. You are blessed to have a husband who cares for you and your daughter. Focus on your blessings. The best revenge is living well. You and your daughter should have the best life possible without this loser.
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