17 y/o have successful siblings and ive always been the type that has to be better than those around him so its hard watching them succeed and knowing im not headed where i want to be. part time job i ahte but have to do so i can afford anything cuz my parents dont have the money. Stumbling through my classes at school. my job has completely ended any social life i may have once had. my only two friends moved away and the other went into the army so he left too. they were the only way i was able to keep a social life going, or at least a sad excuse for one. been single for a couple years now lost track of exactly how long and being a teenager makes that pretty hard to deal with. turned to religion for help seeing as my family always has been religious and my boss's son is a pastor who i know pretty well. that turned out... well... im writing on this website arent i? w/o friends i have lost social skills and cant talk to anyone or keep a conversation going. im watching my one and only dream slip away as my job restricts my ability to keep my grades in check. i take college classes in a running start program while still in high school so the result is i dont see any of the kids i know and could build friendships with. i have no confidence whatsoever and again being a teen, thats pretty rough. i have a family history of depression which hasnt missed a beat, i have bipolar tendencies yet any clues i leave about my depression for my parents to pick up are percieved as a naive and immaturity from being a teenager. if only they knew i was on the edge... i maintain a good image so im percieved as though everyone thinks that i have it all for the fact i was able to buy myself new "toys" (new tv, nice cell phone, car, etc.) with paychecks, they dont know that i only buy these things in attempt to keep my spirits up. im extremely sick all the time. my parents think im gay cuz i havent had a gf in so long and IM 100% NOT! (nothing against gays just not one myself) im 17 yet im a mere couple inches above 5' tall (makes it all that much harder to get a gf) my job forced me to end my basketball career (not that i was gonna be an nba superstar but it coulda kept my social life existent). im sick cuz i eat like shit cuz my mother never cooks me anything cuz she thinks im healthy. i tell her i workout 4 nights/week but when i "go to the gym" i just drive myself to an empty parking lot for an hour or so and listen to music in my car (im not sure why i do this but i cant stop) i have very disturbing thoughts although id never act any of them out they still appear in my head. I know that if i were to tell any of this to anyone it would just look like a teenager crying for attention and i dont care about attention. i have one single class at my high school and have actually started a game with myself to see how many days in a row i can go without saying a single word im at 16 days so far and nobody notices (thats how little people care to talk to me) its a good thing im the type of person who hates the world and and people so i can tolerate a few weeks without human interaction. I keep trying though hoping college will be better and maybe its just high school that is making things so bad. All i can say is things gotta start changing soon cuz i dont know how much longer i can drag this out before i completely give up | |
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just for the record, im 23 so i feel i can tell you this.
Dont play games like lying to your mum or not talking at all at school, and the reason is, the person who is losing from that is YOU, no one else. You say you dont care about attention, but you seem to be craving it, perhaps in a subconscious way if your not realizing it. You also say that you hate the world and can go without interaction, but at the same time you seem incredibly sensitive about not having a relationship. Your only 17 anyway, im 23 and have never had a 'serious relationship' (mind you, i do have a lot of problems, i wont go into). So really all is not lost for you. Last piece of advice, you also seem sensitive about your height which isnt as important as you make it out to be, what i would do if i were you, is go to the gym those 4 nights you say your going to. Best of luck.
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