as a straight man that was married twice, i was a very caring and loving husband that never cheated on them and they both did cheat on me. they turned out to be the filthy whores that i did not know about. i was a very good loving and caring husband at the time and very committed to them as well. in fact, my second wife is bipolar which made it much more difficult for me than my first marriage. she always talked about killing herself, and i told her at the time how much i loved her and i wanted to get the help for her to get us through this. but it did not work out that way, because she refused to go to get the help that she needed. now that i am going through my second divorce, this does upset me because i did love her very much at the time. she has autistic daughter which i raised very well, and i was happy at the time knowing that i was her stepfather. now i am alone and single again, and it sure sucks. i do go out a lot, but i seem to meet all the garbage women instead of the good ones since they like to play head games. there are now so many dysfunctional women out there, and it is very difficult now meeting good ones today. | |
Take it as a golden rule to explain human behaviour. Wanna blame something? Blame the society for inventing marriage to ensure national interests and labour powers. Not target enough, change you view as there is cheating since the beginning of time. Bad women have got nothing to it, women cheat and so do men.
Relationship sucks, marriage sucks harder, change you point of view, then you will be less disappiont thus less paranoid.
If our world had no marriage and family, then it will be replaced by education and baby sitting services. Beside, the female tend to mother and the male just shoot, and GO in the original design or the wild.
It will be in fact less chaotic as emotional love between parents and in parenthood is not in the equation anymore. Our youngling is even more productive to the society and less selfish. Trust me, it works. Divorce is chaotic, different upbringing per family is chaotic, but love without shame is natural in the ways that it takes care of it-self. Surely there is a limit to everyone's imagination.
When there is a pattern in our life, we need to start asking if it is possible we are creating it somehow. Maybe, we are not. Still, it is good to reflect and be sure. If we are creating the pattern, we can try to change and be better people ourselves since we can only really control our own actions.
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