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Posted by same old problems at November 24, 2011
Tags: 2011 November  Relationship

Things were all good.My family was happy.We were far away from all our relatives.
I was doing my graduation.I joined in PG .My father took transfer and we came and started living near all our relatives.Then when i was finishing PG,my father had an accident.My marriage was being fixed to our far relative,whom all my relatives apparently knew for 20-30 yrs.MY aspirations to work were brushed aside as ,u can always work after wedding.
But right from day 1 things were anti...from my husband to my in-laws,relatives said,oh-my-god we dint know that they were like that.
So who suffers..in an abusive realtionship,but me and my parents,sister.
its been almost 7 yrs since marriage and we went through a divorce,2 yrs of seperation and then remarriage to the same person as he would cry and beg and say and do all sorts of things to mend the realtionship with me.but again things r the same once we get back.Multiple seperations happened and now i am left with a broken career,and a broken heart,all broken dreams,my family goes through the same.wher was God??where is God still??why did it happen in the frist place..Where is justice??Why does bad win over good.I have accepted defeat,that this relationship will lead no wher now.But what about all the hurt??A person who crushes me and my family ,hurts us in all possible ways lives like a king...is this India?Is this the philosophy of life??Do i have to learn to hurt and cheat people in order to be happy and prosperous and fulfill all my dreams??Whers the end to this story,when will my life be good again.whats the answer to all our suffering?WHat will be the compensation to all the unfair happenings that we had to bear???


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By anonymous at 29,Dec,11 18:01

Leave him and move in with your family...At least you are close with them....One day you may get re married to a better guy ....If not get your life on track ! Thankfully I am not in India to have an arranged marriage....but they are worse arrange marriages then yours ....


By anonymous at 30,Dec,11 13:29

Sometimes GOD worksin mysterious ways. It is up to you to see the light. GOD tried to tell you to stay away from him and yet you felt compelled to keep going back with the same results. GOD is doing everything to help you out of this relationship and you need to see it. You will be punished for not yeilding to GOD!!; He is on your side and is all knowing. Get out of this relationship and you may feel a temporary loss; loneliness etc. etc. but after awhile the heavens will open and a new life will form for you!!!


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