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Forever alone

Posted by anonymous at September 15, 2011
Tags: Loneliness  2011 September

I really need a hug. My heart aches. I am emotionally lonely. I need to love, to make a woman happy and for her to make me happy.

I'm 25, have a great job, money, house, all the material stuff, gadgets, etc.

I am also a nice guy to be around (no, I'm not an asshole) and I understand woman. And I'm good looking. I even like dancing (but my cooking is crap :P)

But I am utterly alone. WTF!

I always seem to like the girl who is already taken. Nothing has been moving forward for years. My last relationship was a disaster and did not end well. Did that screw me up? I've practically been alone for 2 years or perhaps more. The other day I came from work, sat in darkness in the living room and cried while playing some dumb game on the iPhone. Now I'm even laughing at myself, that's hilarious!

Haha dude, I am so totally utterly alone. I've been alone since I was a child. I have mastered the ways of solitud and i'm even efficient at being alone. I'm fucking good at being alone, I can be locked in my house for days without seeing anyone and not be bothered.

But this has been going for too long. I want to experience that spark of love again. I reeeeeally enjoy making people happy, I love it when I can make my couple happy.

But here I am. I started by googling 'alone', then landed on 'solitude' from there to 'loneliness' and now I'm here writing this. It's sad. It's unnecessarily sad. The world is full of humans and most of us are feeling lonely.

Anyhow, it made me feel good to read that there are other people out there who are 'perfectly good' and also are alone as fuck. And perhaps reading this can make you feel good too. Who knows. En fin, chau.


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By anonymous at 07,Nov,11 16:21

That's the funny thing, right? There are 7 billions of us now and so many of us are lonely. Maybe even more than when there were fewer people, and there were no such things like internet, facebook etc...

I can tell you this much: I would so love to be in your shoes right now :). It would be as though all the problems that are bugging me to no end were solved, with the exception of loneliness, but I could live with that :).


By at 07,Nov,11 17:11

hey you, i simply would just feel great to say this to you, you are the most sincere, open and honestly the kind of guy most women, including myself would love to be around. You simply make ME feel happy, when you express your feelings that way! You are very brave in my eyes, very soft. I feel extremley sad to hear what you are going through, but not surprised. I feel like we are wearing the same shoes. You cry when you are alone in the dark, i do the same. You need a hug, i feel like i need one too. You are perfectly normal, i am too. Yet we are lonely. I feel your pain, i feel your isolation, i feel your need to give and get love. Sometimes i feel very lonely i wonder, even if i am young, if id ever find that perfect man who would stand by me in my worst of times, who would protect me from hardship and who would just give me love... But yeah, i feel empty constantly! Please i know you are strong so stay that way. I would feel very happy if you keep on being the kind of guy you are which is all the best stuff. Id love for you to find happiness. If you need to express more of what you are going through, feel free to write back. If you need more info from me i feel very glad to give you! Thank you for doing this


By at 07,Nov,11 17:14

hey you, i simply would just feel great to say this to you, you are the most sincere, open and honestly the kind of guy most women, including myself would love to be around. You simply make ME feel happy, when you express your feelings that way! You are very brave in my eyes, very soft. I feel extremley sad to hear what you are going through, but not surprised. I feel like we are wearing the same shoes. You cry when you are alone in the dark, i do the same. You need a hug, i feel like i need one too. You are perfectly normal, i am too. Yet we are lonely. I feel your pain, i feel your isolation, i feel your need to give and get love. Sometimes i feel very lonely i wonder, even if i am young, if id ever find that perfect man who would stand by me in my worst of times, who would protect me from hardship and who would just give me love... But yeah, i feel empty constantly! Please i know you are strong so stay that way. I would feel very happy if you keep on being the kind of guy you are which is all the best stuff. Id love for you to find happiness. If you need to express more of what you are going through, feel free to write back. If you need more info from me i feel very glad to give you! Thank you for doing this


By anonymous at 08,Nov,11 11:31

MY LIFE IS HORRIBLE...
By at 09,Nov,11 14:51

hey there, are you the original guy who wrote this? Im only asking so that i can feel like im speaking to the right person and that i can be here with you through this tough time. Im also doing this because i feel so safe talking to you even though i really dont know who you are. Im not the kind of person who comments on any blog so doing this just shows how much i find you different. You are going through a hard time even if some of them are saying your problems are stupid because you dont have a significant other. Well the way i feel is this: when i am lonely i will feel like my world is grey, and that i dont have anywhere to run to escape the ugly cloud. But hey, im still constantly looking for mr right. Im easy to please, i just want happiness and have discovered that good men make me feel amazing. I feel beautiful, feel loved and most of all happy when i am around a guy who loves me. I love being in love. I am understanding, never nag and good looking mixed race girl. I totally accept the way i feel and how others feel. I am always up for any excitment but my family just get in the way. I just feel so lonely in my life right now and being with family or friends doesnt help. Im looking for a guy, a guy like you anonymous..... Oh it doesnt help living in england by the way, the whole lifestyle is terrible. I love to hear from you, but if you are not the original guy then just leave it here.
By knollary.myopenid.com at 13,Nov,11 03:05

Mmmmmmph......Picking up a guy while he's at his lowest and vulnerable. Reading this was like reading an advertisement.

"Love being in love" Check
"Good looking mixed race girl" Check
"Up for excitement" Check
"Lives in England" Check

Wonder if he bit the bait for his dream girl ;P
By anonymous at 17,Nov,11 19:59

Maybe he did!!! why are you lets say.......jealous???? Listen carefully, there are simply guys who girls like to go after, and he seems like one,a totally different person from the likes of rude, sarcastic arrogant people like you. get over it. Get over the fact that a girl just asked this guy out. Get over the fact that it wasn't you being asked out or liked. Maybe you are a person people are not simply attracted to because you are incredibly rude, inconsiderate and stiff? I will tell you this much knowing that I don't know you and wouldn't want to know you, girls on this site like him, not you. they want to get to know him not you. For you to discard someone else's comments like that and put forward your own comment which if I say myself was unhelpful, was absolutely hideous. You have a weird, funny and boring life, and you know how I know? I know because you stuck your nose in in two peoples conversation which let me tell you, you shouldn't be doing. Go find something to do with your life and let people flirt with each other. Stop being a grey cloud over people. And why on earth is it so hard for you to believe that a mixed race girl living in Britain, who is good looking and looking for excitement surprise you out of your skin?????:o GOD you are too funny and sad to be real. Please fix your own life before judging others. You haven't seen a tanned beauty in a while.....sad sad sad...


By Mister B-Don at 08,Nov,11 11:59

Quit bitchin and get up do something about it. Find God Find Jesus before it's to late.


By anonymous at 08,Nov,11 16:47

All you're missing is a woman? There's a million of them out there.Quit being a damn crybaby and go get one.I wish I had your problems.Cowboy up,stop being a sissy!


By anonymous at 09,Nov,11 01:39

Oh my love. You sound like a sweet, kind, and misunderstood person. I only wish I could meet someone like you in life. It will be ok, I promise you.


By anonymous at 12,Nov,11 10:35

So me and you have the same story, I have everything the way everyone else would want it. My looks, my belongings, etc; But still, everyone sucks. I feel sad and almost pathetic because I'm reading people's depressing stories and not writing my own. Maybe because I wanted to feel better from other people's problems being so much worse than my own.


By knollary.myopenid.com at 13,Nov,11 03:17

I'm sort of the same. Always more of an introverted kid, though I tried to change that--I'm still better off alone even though I do like caring for someone.

If you really want love, go out there and find it--but I think needing love to make you happy is sort of....not the best idea. You want to be in love with the person, not the relationship. It sounds like you're a giving and caring person--and you're using a relationship as an outlet? Maybe volunteering will help fill that void. You just in general like spreading happiness around and human interaction/appreciation maybe.

Really, though, if you want a to be in love just for love, then aren't you using a potential girl? You'll love her for the relationship, not for who she is. Don't love her just because you're together--love her for the person she is separate from you, her flaws, her strong points.

You seem like a really nice guy, but if you want a loving relationship to last--again, fall in love with the person first, not your need to love.
By anonymous at 17,Nov,11 20:15

go die please just stop commenting for the sake of sanity................ Who on earth do you think you are blowing off a girl who just got interested in this guy, THEN advising him to go get love??????????????????? Do you know how stupid and ironic this sounds? Probably not, judging by your lack of understanding. Do not advice people when you clearly don't know how love begins in the first place.
"I'm sort of the same"=NO YOU ARE NOT!!!!
"I do like caring for someone"=PHFFFFFFFFF!!!
"Maybe volunteering will help fill that void" He isn't asking for a job you arrogant waste of space, he is looking for love!!!!!
"Fall in love with the person fist not your need to love" Well why the hell did you stick your butt in and ruined what could have been a happy little moment that could have cheered him up? I seriously do not understand you! If you do not believe in internet interaction then just leave and save us some time. Please if you are reading this see what is commented for you up on your previous stupid comment where you couldn't believe your senses that a beautiful mixed race girl really does exist in the world and not in fairy tales. God I already hate your guts.....Don't bother replying coz I ain't gonna see your crap, coz if I do then I will probably feel even more sad for you which I do not want to feel.


By anonymous at 13,Nov,11 17:50

Aw snookums, i am so much older than you and i can totally relate. The crying in the dark thing especially although i do mine in my room curled up on my bed...quite an oscar worthy performance actually even if i say so myself!

I hope you find someone soon. Feeling lonely and yearning to be loved but not being able to find it while not the greatest problem, is awful.

Take care me luv...


By anonymous at 15,Nov,11 20:02

You made my day. I was crying and crying but your funny comments mae me feel great I am not laughing at you, i am laughimg with you. I totally feel the same way. you sound like an only child--I am too..take care.. you definately bought me out of my stupor---even though tonight I may be sad again and popping my Zoloft in the AM ;)....


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