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I understand how you feel. Don't think you are unlovable...it's just that because of your shyness you haven't given anyone a chance to see how wonderful you are. Just go out there and mingle. Life is too short. World needs more kind people like you. Don't underestimate your existence. Just trust in your strengths.maybe volunteer at a nursing home or at an orphanage, you will meet some nice people there. Also love will happen when you least expect it...trust me:-) live at the present (this moment), don't let your past affect you anymore and stop wasting life making plans for future and live right now; coz life is too short. If some people don't like you, don't worry because there are thousands of others who will. Just give them a chance:-)
Hope this helps,
Sherin
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Never having had sex isn't really that big a deal. It is actually nice to find people that haven't. Most people that have a lot of sex with lots of different people are really just gross people, in my opinion.
You just need an area of interest to direct your passions. you need to find like-minded people, not to look for others to accept you. looking for others to accept you as a "friend" so you can show off a list of friends will eventually prove unfulfilling.
i felt so lonely and pathetic about myself today, so just googled what it got to offer me about, then i found this link. really i feel sad about you. you cannot do what ever happened to you for the past years, but life isn't over yet. i am in a such a situation i feel depressed and lonely more often, but i don't give up, i try to be normal and making my life fun. i do have a facebook account and i really enjoy being in it (but honnest to say sometimes i feel worried a lot, while see others have more joy than me) i show up like a normal person without problems try to make friends and see for any relationship could workout.. anything. because i have one thing in big time that is HOPE, i have the hope one day or another i will be blessed and will be happy a lot. in that day i shouldn't feel upset that i was always feeling depressed. so even when all the troubles and sadness i have, i mingle with society, play, go to gym, dress nice, stay clean, actually i do better than others. and i have the trust in Almighty god above all my strength.
but am 32, and about sex not yet,...and lot of pathetic stories in my life. so don't be worried and cornered. just try to act normal, you will become normal. and don't rush for a relationship, because if it become worse you will be more sad. so just make friends, and be good and open. by time you will find a happy life amid all troubles.
send me your facebook id to yerzad@hotmail.com, start making friends from me :)cheer up lady :)
after reading this I can honestly say I would love to meet you :D. It's highly unlikely however, I don't even live in the USA.
Women like you are very rare, I mean this in the best possible. I think not all men can appreciate this, but many guys do, and most of those who can't are superficial jerks anyway, so you kind of have this filter that protects you from assholes :). The problem for you is finding a guy that could appreciate your value in your age group. I'm sure there are a few still left somewhere though.
I found that, after graduating from university, pretty much the only way to meet new people and make lasting friends is through hobbies. Maybe it's not the only way, but it surely the most effective and most pleasant. So do you have any hobbies? Develop them. If not, try and remember something that you always wanted to do, or think of something new. Then do that, make sure you really enjoy it, don't start, cycling for example, just because you want to meet guys, it would be miserable, you have to enjoy the activity (cycling is a good option if you like it though :), looots of guys doing it). After you get some experience in whatever it is that you like to do, find a community, join classes, attend meeting etc, you get the picture... Your shyness will still get in the way, but at least it will be almost not awkward at all to meet new people because you are all doing something and it's only natural to want to talk to like minded people.
And don't rush it, i think it's better to stay single than to end up with a wrong person (divorce and all that fighting... meh...).
Wish you all the best :). Good Luck!
Might be pretty insignificant, but just look at how many comments you got, and try to see what percentage of posts on this website does that good...
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In Life you get back what you put in, don't waste your life watching the paint peel off the Walls!! X
Johnny
I happen to know a man, about your age, who was going through the same thing, taking care of his father until he died. After his father's death, his sisters took his inheritance and split.
Shortly after, he met and fell in love with a beautiful Vietnamese women he met at a salon. It just goes to show that things like that happen without warning.
So, no matter what you believe in, even if it's nothing at all, you gotta admit that you deserve to have something great happen to you, for doing such a nice thing. I would say to just keep your eyes open for possibilities, no doubt there will be some out there waiting for you!
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