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Everyday is the same fucken shit!!!!!

Posted by Anonymous life at August 22, 2011
Tags: 2011 August  Meaninglessness  Relationship

I can't believe I'm writing this but maybe someOne out there feels like I do. I'm a stay at home mother and house wife. My life consists of the same routine everyday. I have a sexist pig fOr a husband who says he doesnt have to help me clean because he works to bring money intO the house. He also bitches about everything: why do I take money outta the account (maybe because I need to buy stuff!), why isn't the house clean( I fucken clean it like three times a day it's not easy when 3 kids are making a mess all day!!), why do I make the same food all the time (I'm trying to learn but I'm busy all day!!) etc. The fucken list goes on and on... Alot of you are probably thinking why the fuck am I still with him: well the answer is simple I'm not good at anything so I've just grown reliable with the life I have:-( it's sad to see this!!! I went to college & I have degree but the major I studied for was shit ( I worked in the field I studied for & realized I fucken hated it!!!!) so now I spend my most of my days regretting the day I moved In with him. If I could turn back time I would've done it all so differently. In a way I think I understand why some parents just up and leave their families, they get overwhelmed with everything that they find it easier to leave. And no one will understand it either until they've actually lived it.


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By anonymous at 20,Oct,11 16:42

Thats a shame, and honestly with 3 children to take care of there probably aren't many options. You've eneterd into a partnership with this person and the two of you are forever entangled and joined at the hip. You're stuck together really. Perhaps you should just make the best of it.


By anonymous at 23,Oct,11 03:00

Obviously the other person commenting has never been in this situation. "Perhaps you should just make the best of it"...Please! You know what that will lead to? Complete and utter depression and a lack of will to live. I know, I've been there. There is only one solution...you need to take your kids and leave. I am not saying it will be easy, because it will be hard as hell. But you are living in hell anyway right now, aren't you. What will be the hardest about it is, plain and simply, the change/getting out of the horrible situation you are comfortable in. First thing you need to decide is that YOU are going to change your own life because no knight in shining armor is going to show up (wouldn't that be nice, but I waited for years for mine and that damn knight never showed up). Don't wait for just the right time to make your move because there never is a "right" time; It's always someone's birthday, or special holiday, or any other excuse you can give yourself. And the #1 excuse of "Well the kids need both parents" or "It would hurt the kids too much" doesn't fly either. Kids are much better off with one parent who is happy than with two who are miserable. What your husband-thing is doing is mental and emotional abuse. Call a shelter; there are plenty out there who will take a mother and her children in and give you all a place to live until you can get back on your feet. They help you and guide you into finding a better life; you won't be stuck on your own with no idea what to do with yourself. And honey, I don't ever want to hear you say that "I'm not good at anything" ever again. The only reason that that thought is in your head is because that SOB husband of yours has put it there by making you feel worthless. That is not a real man, that is a little boy. And you are so much better and deserve so much more than that. I say all this from personal experience. I wish I could take you by the hand and make you make the change and guide you through it, but I can't because this really is something you have to DO for yourself. But remember you are never BY yourself. There are so many of us out there who have been in or are still in a situation like yours. I am not a very religious person, but I will say a prayer that you will come across the strength to leave him. PLEASE leave him. Today, not tomorrow or the next day. Today, just do it. I promise, life does and will get better.
By anonymous at 24,Oct,11 08:46

You're an idiot. Thats first and foremost. Advising this woman to take herself and her 3 children to a shelter... Really? I could see if the husband was physically abusive. In that case I would certainly say leave because by staying you would be endangering your life and the lives of your children. But lets be real, all this woman is complaining about is that her husband bitches at her about her cooking and cleaning. I'm not saying the husband isn't an asshole, but thats beside the point. We're talking about what's best for these 3 kids. You're suggesting she should go to a shelter, uproot her children and take them to an unstable environment without any means to support them? Seriously? A shelter could be dangerous, unsafe and its only a temporary solution. How traumatic would it be for those kids to have to go to a shelter and be ripped from their home? And after the shelter then what? Thats the advice you're giving? That's extrememly irresponsible advice and you should be ashamed of yourself. Unfortunately any idiot with a computer and internet connection can give advice, but to the the OP I hope you realize this is very bad advice this person is giving. You need a job and money to leave your husband, that's reality. You're wise to have not just up and left without a plan as this person suggests. If you are truly unhappy, get a job, get yoursself together and then once you have the financial means to care for your children on your own, then and ONLY then should you leave. You aren't in any immediate danger so there is no need to do as this person suggests, you have 3 kids best interests to consider.

The reality of life is sometimes we get into situations and have to tough it out, a worse mistake would be to jump from the frying pan to the fire as they say. Don't make a bad situation worse.


By anonymous at 12,Dec,11 01:24

Your husband sounds a little annoying, but I wouldn't say he is sexist for not wanting to help you clean. I mean he works fulltime, you're home all day, he's got a point that the housework should be your job.

I'm a woman by the way, and I'd say the same if the roles were reversed (i.e. if it was you working fulltime and he was home - then the housework would be HIS responsibility).

It sounds like you need to communicate a little better with your husband, maybe you should try marriage counselling. That is if you want to stay with him. If not, then you need to get a job like the person above said.

Good luck.


By anonymous at 15,Jun,12 23:39

You are inferior b/c you're a woman. Women suck - literally & figuratively. Women are inferior to men and they're only useful for: se*x, cleaning, cooking. Problem is best cooks/chefs are men, men can clean better when they don't consider it boring activity, and se*x usually places woman in underneath position.

So women are stupid. Most famous people aside from sluts, showbiz monkeys, grimazing clowns, had been MALE. Greatest thinkers & scoentists & musicians and stuff.

Too bad you're female. You should've been aborted.


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