am 17 years boy and ofcourse am lonely. i was happy till a i was 14 years old ,then the loneliness started,and the reason is high school ,my dad put me in a very far school from home . and most of my high school friends are living near the school , so for me it was hard to comunicate with them, just imagine to come every morning to hear them talking about what they have done together and where they have gone together , and am the only one who dont have anything to share with them, even in my area there is no one in my age or maybe younger or older who can be a good friend to me, its like i got no one,no one to speak to ,no one to share with my feelings,i never been bullied , but i have feelings and i dont want to be lonely ,its hard to find someone who loves you for who you are , and just imagine that you stay alone daily no one to talk to every day not from 3 years but for 17 years u got no friend to share him your things,and i get use to it that i even wish to live in a dark box alone without anyone ,i cry alot cause it just hard to live lonely, and believe me writing this made me cry. | |
please help me tooo.......
It's hard to give advice as it seems there may be deeper issues hidden in your hurt and loneliness?
In any case... you need to get out. At this point... even give some of the older folks a try. (You may be able to learn things from them, even increase your maturity). Chat online. As another person posted - sign up for clubs or activities. Find a new hobby.
Do something to get you outside, and amongst people. You're obviously at a lonely point where at least SOME interaction and connection with others (no matter the age difference) will provide some small relief.
You will get hurt and you will get rejected. You will wonder why you are different and why you don't deserve to be happy. You must keep going, regardless. I promise, I SWEAR that this will work at least in the medium term. The long term is up to you - having found this site, I'm clearly not a happy gentleman. However, at 20 I at least have the happy memories from after your predicament and can have some faith that things will work themselves out.
Anyway, I do know the feeling of being alone and it feels like it gets worse and worse everyday. -_-. I tried making friends but my mom always cockblocked me from doing so. I've never had sleepovers or was about to go out with friends etc. Now I'm 22 and still live alone in my own world.
However, you can't simply give up. Never give up (Or so a man wearing a purple shirt says) It's to be known that one day, you WILL find friends.
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