LIFE SUCKS

loosing weight is easy- you just stop eating- drink water- and then you excercise. I mean if youre that weak you cant overcome a food addiction.. its gonna be hard convincing a woman to be with you, because shes gonna think you have no willpower. Whats more important food or sex? I dont have any nice clothes and I never EVER did. I also once bought a cell phone and subscription that I never ended up using. none of thse answers are gonna make you feel better and your're probably never gonna meet the love of your life. But it's a mans world, so make the most of it.

There is no way that someone can have as bad a life as that! I would even rather be a thirdworlder than that, at least they usually look fit due to the lack of excessive food. I tell most directionless-young adults on here to join the military, but they won't take you. At least the fit ones can continue to feed the Industrial Complex while I hoard the money behind the scenes and meet new powerful connections back here where it is safe. Do you have any connections that can help you join the Masons?

I CAN"T BELIEVE IT SOMEONE WHO ALMOST EXACTLY MATCH MY LIFE... except the part i go to church... i barely go to church.... but i definitly go into stores.. i hate just siting in the parking lot and watch people enter in and out of the store

im not obese but im slightly chubby and i have never had sex with a hot woman in my life but one time there was a unattractive girl at church that told me i was cute and cuddly but she wasnt hot enogh for me to date. i want a hot sexy blond haired blue eyed girl with nice legs. i to dont have a job. i dont even drive yet becuse im to timid.

Your post made me so sad. First of all I want to say that you are still so young. You can change your life around. I used to weigh almost 300 pounds and am way below 200 now. It has changed my life. I am more confident and I get out more and my life has gotten better in so many ways. You have to learn to love yourself right now as you are. When you love yourself you want to take care of yourself. Look at yourself in the mirror and smile and tell yourself that you are not that bad...that is how I started. You will make friends...be kind to people and people will be kind to you. Volunteer at an animal shelter or a nursing home. Give to those who do not have a way to help themselves and as you help others you will also help yourself. Do not give up my friend. Remember...there is a world of insecure people out there who do things like make mean comments about others because of their weight, the way they look or any number of things. But you have to remember they are doing that to make themselves feel and look better because deep inside they do not like themselves. Those people may seem perfect and happy and all of those things but we do not know what they are really like inside and what they think. Try to let those comments roll off your back. It is just their words and they do not mean anything. Yes I know they hurt...but try to let them go...because you are a lovely human being with a heart and a mind and dreams just like anyone else. We all want the same thing, we want to be loved and have someone love us. I am sending you love and healing and wishes for a wonderful life.

Wow, there's just no fucking hope for you.

Dear Ryan

I've just read the last comment to your post - people can be cruel sometimes.

This is the first time that I've reacted to one of these things. Know, then, that you have spoken to me, someone stuck in a foreign country who is old enough to entertain herself but still feels crippled by loneliness.

What I've realised is this: it's not about weight, it never is. And you'll probably never read this, although I hope you do.

I have always struggled with my weight - sometimes too much, sometimes too little. But what I've realised(another realisation) is that loneliness has nothing to do with weight ... it has to do with the feeling of not belonging. Somehow, people like you and me, we feel like we don't fit in this world,even if we are too small or too big. It has nothing to do with how we look, but how we feel.

So I won't give you practical advice about how to lose weight, because that, for me, is secondary, What I would like to say to you is this: find that part of yourself that believes in the good fight. The battle you start every morning - the one that makes you get out of bed (and how difficult is that to do sometimes?),take a breath,brush your teeth and face the world (as imperfectly as you feel you do that at the moment). This is the good fight, because it takes guts to do, feeling as you do.

This is not an instaneous cure, nor instantaneous relief. But I hope that it will make you see that you are a warrior (we all are) and that this energy, this realisation, will help you to plan your next battle ... whatever that may be.

thanks, Man! I am overweight by 40 lbs and felt extremely bad at it. You made my life a bit easy. Why don't we lose weight together?

Hi

I always had a problem with weight. Im 200 something pounds, 5ft. 5, 32 years old woman. Losing weight is a lifelong thing for me. My weight fluctuated up and down. Over the years i noticed one thing. I always have to do something to lose weight. I always have to do something about my food craving.About the times i just let my self go ,eat and then pity myself.I realized that i either do something or i will just keep getting fatter.Now im not on e diet i just watch what i eat. I do put effort in to loosing weight. I mesure calories, i bought kitchen scale and i write everything down. It helps me. I suggest you try sometning otherwise no change will come. I wish you the best. Please dont give up. Andrea

you can get past this... i know you can. you are worth it.

Hey Ryan, how about getting yourself off to see a nutritionist, a personal trainer, a psychologist and of course see your GP or psychiatrist. Yeah, you will need to outlay some money. But they are very important life tools that will help to set you up. Think of it as a course, like at college. You will learn to set short and long term goals and attack your self esteem and health head on. 20 is still young. You've had a hard time. Sorry to hear that. You are not alone there. There are lots of assholes in this world. Go somewhere where you can walk each day - try 30 minutes a day to start. Get yourself sweating and burning calories. Tell yourself that you are going to be kind to yourself now and make things better. You deserve it.

Hey Ryan hang on buddy okay. Believe this if you want but im 14 and weigh 345 i think? Anyway I CAN say i know how you feel. Like you want to disapear, escape humuliation and pain right. Trust me, I know that feeling. Plus having an older sibling who's better than you at everthing doen't help at all. I can't lie and say i haven't thought of suicide ,because I have many times. Right now Im taking online school. I tell you this because Im going to use this year to change. I don't have a lot of motivation like some other people might have, so its going to be hella hard. Im going to a new school so its scary. I get depressed alot, and have social anxiety. So as you can guess I have few friends. I know that if I don't change how I am I'll go and harm myself, maybe even commit suicide. I know your older than me, so prolly have alot of hurtfull memories, but so do I. Hang in their buddy. Because of you I know I'll try to-to. Prolly never read this, but hey its here if you do.
-Sincerly
-Kat.
(Yeah Im a chick)

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