LIFE SUCKS

dont worry..your friends are all sluts if they are having sex at 14 dont worry about it just sit back and laugh. my girlfriend had sex for the first time at 14 and it rips me to pieces every time i think about it. we are now 17 and i cant get over it. please dont have sex at 14.

Don't have sex until you are in love. It's not that great at that age anyway. I'm 30 and i lost my virginity young...15. 14 is WAY to young. Meet a nice guy, date and fall in love (that takes at least 6 months to a year of dating) and then only when you are both completey and know he loves you, then it's ok. Besides, guys only give slutty girls attention because they want to have sex, they don't really respect them. It might seem like they are getting all kinds of attention, but it's not the kind of attention you want. And FYI, If you make it to 17-18 and are still a virgin, then YOU will be the one getting all the attention because you'll probably be the only one left in your school! But just wait until you are in love. It's really overrated otherwise, I promise!!! Sex is best with someone you love and not just emotionally but physically because the two are related.

come on... you are only 14
so young for sex or such works

Just relax and realize that your friends are probably putting on a front, and if they are not, then there is a lot more wrong with them then there is with you.

holy shit, please shut the fuck up. There are people who go past 20 without any sort of romance/mate. Some of your friends are lying to you about what they're "getting" anyway, thats what happens in highschool.

What a whiny little bitch, a 14 year old girl complaining about something that she cant wait even a year or two longer for despite having the most time on the planet to get these things.

I mean im a guy, it's probably different but despite being a horny teenage guy i still never really expected to get laid until i was at least 19+(alot of my highschool friends said similar things like 17/18+). Oh well, maybe you just come from a slutty neighborhood.

don't rush in life, you might regret it. what if you become pregnant at a young age? and end up having dead end jobs for the rest of your life and have a drunken husband who wouldn't even get a damn job. my advice is to earn your degree first in college. then get a guy (that's why you go to college that's where you look for a decent person) then get married, have sex, have children, and from there life will be easier. well can't always say it would be easier because sometimes things that are not meant to happen in life happens for some reason, so good luck in life! and always pray.

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