I'm 24 and Married for a year and a half. I now realize that I am not at all sexually attracted to my wife anymore. I stay in good shape, and my wife is very attracted to me, but I cant even get it up when I look at her. We (successfully) have sex once a month. I usually make up reasons for not having sex with her, and then masturbate alone while looking at pornography. I keep this hidden from her as well.
My fear is that being honest will make things worse. So I just continue living this way. I feel guilty every second of every day.
Just a few thoughts from a failed husband and a failed man. | |
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I married not a thin woman but she wasn't fat. She had long dark hair, and wore glasses that framed her pretty eyes.
Within three years, she gained like thirty pounds, cut her hair short, and began to wear contact lenses. It was like she was a different woman and not the woman I was attracted too, and married.
We already had a kid, and she brought kids from a prior marriage into our marriage, so I felt I needed to hang around, but I lost that attraction .... and after another year, I started to think about straying.
Due to being poorly hung, "Which she reminded me of regularly" the real alternative for me was men, and I wouldn't cheat on her with a guy, so we divorced.
Dreams of old, hearts gone cold, the one you missed, never kissed, can't reach out, too late to shout, roaming blind, hard to find, never met, lost the bet, took that path, what a laugh, what would have been, can't be seen, so here you are, beneath that star, ball and chain in the rain, feel your pain, drenched in shame, yourself to blame...
Not doing something about it will. MOVE YOUR ARSE!
Dont deny her a future and a family.. that goes for you too
Also my advise to you is not to jump into another relationship after you do leave your wife... youve got some things to work on and it would be better to do that alone...
Good luck chuck :)
i'm in a similar boat but im worse, i still find my wife attractive, i just do stupid shit behind her back. dont know why i guess im just selfish.
I just wanna know how your going with the guilt because i feel like a failed husband and failed man exactly the same
my e-mail is beast_84@hotmail.com and ill love to just see what you ended up doing or getting upto and has the guilt gone away
Im not nut just wanna see how
Do the right thing!
and don't listen to that gay shit media trys to say.
and most importantly don't be afraid. if you have a problem, it is 2012 and there sure will be a solution for that.
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