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Who is the problem, me or my boyfriend?

Posted by Silvie at December 27, 2010
Tags: 2010 December  Relationship

I think i should break off my relationship, but i'm trying my best to be patient and really understanding because these are two things i'm not good at. I like my boyfriend David, and he's the only guy i've given a second chance to. Four years ago we dated but i ended it with him for the following reasons.
*He's very jealous and insecure (but he claims he's not), but acts like it all the time for no reason at all.
*He can't focus and acts like someone that has ADD, but doesn't beleive he does ( yet he has all the signs of someone with ADD or ADHD)
*When he drinks (usually just on weekend) regardless of the amount, he acts very foolish, totally out-of-control. He's loud and acts stupid, but completely forgets his behavior when he's sober and always says he will not drink again but come next weekend he drinks and acts the same.
*When we talk about things that are very important he forgets the next time i bring it up. this is annoying and frustrating.
*He always has to have all the TV, radio, computer on at all time and all at the same time, i'm the opposite.
*He's up all night, but sleeps during the day when he's off from work.

Ok, so now that to me are more than enough reason to make me leave, but these are just the things that i don't like about him, but there are so much greatness about him that i think if i giving up on him i'd give up on a great man. David is older than me, but he doens't look his age, he's a responsible man, something you don't see much around my area. He has his own place, he works and own his own car. I'm very independent and i want a man that is just as independent. David is also very loving and romantic. I know that he loves me and wants to have a family soon, but i'm just not sure i can stay with him becasue all the things that annoy me. and the reason they are big deal to me is becasue i'm the opposite. So basically we have very different personalities, but we both love each other, have same goals, but i wish he would stop feeling insecure. I give him absolutely no reason to feel or act that way, so it makes me angry that he acts like he doesn't trust. I don't know what to do. When i tell him it's off and we don't speak for a day or so i miss him. He's planning for us to live together soon, and i'm not sure i can live with him, it's already hard to be with him now, i can't imagine what it will be like if we are together all the time. I know that this is who he is and i don't want him to change, but i don't know how we're going to work it out if we can't find a way to understand and accept each other's own personalities. I appreciate helpful advice. Thanks.


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