I had this really good guy friend and he was attached when i first got to know him. He was like a best friend, someone whom you could cry to, share all your troubles with.
But what happened was that we became so close and hung out together often. Some rumours came about and his girlfriend found out. Then his girlfriend got so pissed off and paranoid, thinking that i was out there to steal her boyfriend, that she wanted to break up with him. Well in the end they didnt cause she gave in.
But because of this stupid relationship, some girls in the school hated me, deemed me as a slut. i lost his friendship as i decided to avoid him, so as to let all the screwed up rumours subside. I know it was stupid to let go of this valuable friendship but i just couldnt take all that shit.
Until now, some girls in the school hate me, and i've like totally lost this best friend of mine. I've no idea what i should do. Should i approach him again and renew the friendship, or should i just let go?
i miss him like crap. |
as you know, girls can be really nasty. Which means, his girl friend and her little friends will try to make your life miserable,not only that, you know one of them will try to start a fight for no reason. The question is how will you handle all of that. As you know,there will be drama and a lot of it. What you will need to do is to talk to your friend, maybe away from school until the two of you can figure out this "friendship". My only question is how does he really feel about you. Does he want to be more than friends, or is he part of the problem. Figure this stuff out. P.S. Don't let any of those girls trick you into going into the bathroom to talk or meeting them somewhere to talk, you don't want them to "jump you" and put it on the net. I am not trying to scare you, but the reality is that young girls are no longer gentle little girls. I wish you the best, but also, I really hope you can share this with your parents and get their take on this.
Wait til you get to the real world, and I mean the really, real world, not "college" which is a poor excuse for the real world.
Then come on back.
If you are sincere she will believe you and the rumors will fall by the wayside.
Heterosexual males and females cant be friends, there will always be some sort of sexual attraction. Unless one is much uglier then the other, then the ugly one just ends up loving the pretty one and gets their heart ripped out.
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