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Posted by Alex at December 13, 2010
Tags: Attitude  2010 December  Relationship

my life doesn't suck, it's just uneventful, which is really my own fault as Im am very introverted(shy), I have the hardest time talking to people. I've been kind of depressed ever since my girlfriend broke up with me, it was my first serious relationship, I'm only 19. I really loved her and she is the only girl to ever show interest in me and tell me Im sweet and handsome and I miss that so much. I want to move on and stop being sad, the thing is I don't really get out too much, I hardly ever see any girls and even if I do I'm too shy to talk too them. It's really my own fault, I'm pretty much socially retarded and extremely awkward, I'm not bad looking or anything, Im always dressed very nicely and Im extremely polite and nice to a fault, it seems like nice guys really do finish last.


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By anonymous at 02,Jan,11 07:56

You are right, nice guys finish last, but always be true to who you are.
Several girls left me for Neanderthals on Harleys, but that's life.
Shyness can be overcome with experience. Get a job that lets you meet lots of women, such as a job in a clothing store or restaurant. You will soon find out that women are like normal people, not some alien species from the planet "Weird".


By anonymous at 03,Jan,11 17:58

Lol.. You're shy to talk to them cos you're subconsciously 'trying' every time you come across a girl or start to talk to a girl. When you just be yourself and say exactly what comes to your head after listening to exactly what she's been saying, you got no problems at all. You'll learn man. Just let go and learn to be yourself and cherish it without giving a fuck about what people think. You're uneventful, you don't go out, you don't meet girls, who gives a fuck? Whatever. I'm 19 too. I sit at home all day, I don't go out, I'm stuck to the computer and the TV. Cos I'm a loner and that's what I like to do. Fuck THE OTHERS!


By *Just a girl* at 04,Jan,11 06:17

Well, i think that you should relax...if you have a brother or a sister go out together..you should have some acquaintances so hang out with them. Go drink and bitch around a little bit, enjoy your life after all it's not so long to waste all these little precious moments :) Have a good life :)
P.S when talking to a girl don't mind anything if u screw up just remind yourself that you'll never see her again, so why do u have to care? And by the way they say that the first love/girlfriend is very hard to forget as u will always compare another girls to her. Wish u good luck !


By Alex at 05,Jan,11 13:34

thanks for the comments


By anonymous at 06,Jan,11 03:17

Nice guys don't finish last.
All a girl really wants in the end is to settle down with a nice guy to spend the rest of their lives with.
Maybe the problem is that you're shy.
If you're shy, how can a girl notice your personality and what you have to offer?
You have to learn to start conversations and be more outgoing. (:


By Alex at 07,Jan,11 22:33

I wish it was that easy. I was rock climbing at a gym with a friend of mine today and a couple of beautiful girls caught my eye, I wanted to talk to them, and they even came up to us, but I just froze up like always, I think I have a way of weirding girls out and scaring them away


By anonymous at 01,Feb,11 18:53

First of all,you seem like a really sweet guy.i know ALOT of girls that are looking for a guy like you.dont give up.all we look for genurally is, he has to be sweet,kind,funny,makes us smile,and has something in comen with us,thats all.(oh and it helps if you dont cheet
By anonymous at 09,Feb,11 14:02

i just wish i could talk to them without feeling like im gonna pass out, and thats not just girls but people in general, i am just so shy, thanks for the comment i appreciate it


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IP4p9D I am so grateful for your post.Really thank you!


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