4 weeks exactly before Christmas day and my husband of 10 years tells me he has been unhappy with our lives for years and has repressed his feelings to a point that he no longer loves me and he has found another woman (3 months ago) that he thinks he wants to 'start a new life with'. i loved and trusted this man with my whole heart and soul and i had no idea. yes i realize how ridiculous it sounds but he's a good actor and he is a good father to our 2 young children. those wonderful children are the only things keeping me going. me, being the ever faithful ridiculous wife, suggested we see a therapist and see if we can work on the relationship because we never even gave it a try because he never opened his big mouth to say anything was wrong. he just doesn't know. he just wants to run away with this homewrecking woman - who also has a husband and 2 children - and he knows what a horrible thing that would be for our family. so he can't decide.
now here i sit with my 2 young children, two weeks before Chrismas, crying all the time. i saw a therapist today but she can't make him say what i want to hear - which is "i was an asshole and i'm so sorry, can you ever forgive me? i want to start again and re-connect and i want to love you for the rest of my life."
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great answer there, hussy!
You should've noticed that your husband is not satisfied. Anyways you both are guilty and the children suffer most as always.....
Life sucks. :/
You can be the strong woman, trust me, it took me forever to get there, but now I am happy in my life, I am getting remarried to a man who loves me dearly and treats my son as if he was his own. It does get better.
Remember those times when you had to as his "permission"
To go out with the girls or what to do for the kids birthday?
Yeah fuck him. Do what you want and enjoy it.
If not for yourself enjoy it for the rest of us who are stuck in
Lifeless, loveless, nightmare marriages.
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